Confused if she likes me too. Do straight girls do that?
I have a huge crush on one of my classmates in culinary arts. We (both girls) were seatmates and I noticed her kinda being touchy towards me. I was confused coz we’re not that close at that time. Then there’s this stolen glances and sometimes she cant look at me in the eye when she talks. Then one time I was just standing looking at something when she came to me and like hugged me from behind. I was so nervous and didnt know what to do so I just let her and started a conversation. I was sooo happy at the same time nervous coz I am so into her, or i love her and shes hugging me. And she doesnt do that to her other friends.She’s so gorgeous,beautiful and sweet girl. So I dont know if shes into me, or was that normal for straight girls to do something like that? I’m just so confused.
I've, out if all the times girls scream and hug eachother, never seen one hug another from behind unless they were in a relationship or really anyone hug from behind like that and not be in a relationship. I guess it depends how she did it though, if she did it more to scare you or catch you off guard I guess that would be somewhat casual? Also, if she keeps looking at you and being touchy whilst she already hugged you like that, I can't really speak for her sexual preference but in my opinion, she's probably not straight
Thanks Tiffany. She hugged me like slowly that I felt her rubbing my back. And I never seen her do that to her friends. And after school, I even posted something on facebook just to check if she would like or comment. And she did. She's the very first to like and even commented. And so it was like a conversation of comments between us. :)
I think she does like you. Give it some time, if you're not a very straight-forward person, then start small and observe her. When a girl has a crush, they happen to observe a lot.
If you think you're ready, don't be shy to ask.
Everyone kinda has their own way of hugging and whatnot so i wouldnt base everything on that. Im straight and i hug other girls all the time and do weird stuff but theyre my friends so its not like a big deal. Does she know you like girls? if so, i think she could be flirting with you knowing that and still doing things. I would just ask her and be straight up with her about how you feel because youll never know unless you ask. Theres always a chance she could be feeling the same way:)