When I was 13 I met this girl. She was 11 at the time and we became fast friends. We were never an official couple but we told each other that we loved one another though I honestly didn’t mean it. She lived an hour away and we only saw each other 3 times in person. The rest was all online or on the phone. After a while I was getting tired and annoyed by her childish behavior and her obsessive attitude and started to become a giant asshole (pardon my language). I found another girl when I was almost 15 and I left the other girl and started to seriously date the new girl. After that relationship was over it was a few months later and the other girl started calling me again. She is still the same childish and obsessive girl. I didn’t want to be an ass like I was last time so I just kept talking to her and then eventually I stopped answering and she got the hint. The same thing happened when I turned 18. She started talking to me again and AGAIN was really obsessive and childish. Now I am going on 20 and she is going on 18 and she has started talking to me again. She tells me she still loves me and everything and she is still just as childish and annoying as ever yet this time I can’t help but enjoy our conversations at times. I am just very confused about the whole situation. How can she still want to talk to me after everything? Why am I enjoying this just a little? I don’t get any of it.