confused about my relationship, should I end it?

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I have been with the same guy since I was 15 and I am now 21. Although, we broke up a lot when we were young. Anyway, I have lived with him since 2011 and everything was great. Well we had our issue, of course, but we made it through them. But before we got back together for the last time i was talking to another guy and was really into him, but if course I dropped him when my first bf came back into my life. But for the past year, even before we had our son who is now 1, i would think about him and try to contact him but he didn’t have social media page and I didn’t have his number. Anyways we grew apart over tome and I feel that I don’t feel the same as I did about him. We barely have a sexual relationship and when we do i really sont feel into it. We argue a lot and he doesn’t have his priorities straight when they should be considering he is an adult and has a child. What do I do? How do I know if I am not in love with him anymore?

Category: asked December 3, 2014

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I think you need to follow your heart and realize what is right for you and for your son...It sounds like you are ready to move on. I think you are strong for realizing this...You can still have a non-romantic relationship with him to keep the peace between the two of you for your child's sake. I hope it works out for you.
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I agree with Caiti. Only you know what's best for you. If you don't feel like you love him anymore, then the best thing to do is to end it. Otherwise, things will just keep getting more and more tense. Maybe sit down with him and talk it out. See how he feels. Good luck!