Confronting an ex best friend


As many of you who follow my blog knows that I had a bad break up with my best friend of 7 years 1 year and half ago to the day. I’ve decided that now is the time to go up to her and say hi. Simple as that. I’m nervous on what will happen but I believe she thinks of me too. I am willing to risk my emotions to do this. I;m just worried about sinking into depression like 1 year and a half ago. Please tell me I’m doing the right thing I need some support

Category: asked December 1, 2014

1 Answer

It really depends on the nature of you situation. Earlier this year I have a "break up" with a best friend of 8 years. I have no idea what she thinks of me now BUT I'm still friends with her twin sister. I haven't spoken to her because I haven't felt the need to. I'm much better off without her because she wasn't treating me right the last year of our friendship. If we saw each other in person with a mutual friend or something of course I would say hi and be friendly, but I don't want to rekindle our friendship unless she changes drastically. If you want to rekindle your friendship, I would advise against it unless you know the person in the wrong had changed a lot or if the fight was stupid in the first place. But if you're just trying to be friendly because you have mutual friends then go right ahead. If she's rude and doesn't want anything to do with you, then that's her problem and you can just hold onto the fact that you're better than her.