So recently my friend, we’ll call her Jane, who happens to be dating my boyfriend’s brother had a conflict with me. Basically she assumed, wrongly, that I made a post about her on social media and began attacking me online and via text because of it. The argument escalated and then she began texting my boyfriend trying to make me look like a bad person and telling him that I’m a child. He knew about the argument already because I had cried about it on his shoulder and shown him all of my messages with her and what she had said about me. Once she began texting him I told him he would be better off deleting her off of social media and blocking her like I did. He did block Jane. His parents are now upset and think that Jane and I are in a dumb argument and that I forced him to delete her and will make him cut out family members if they ever get upset with me (i would never ask him to do that) and they think it’s my fault that drama is happening between Jane and I and that I caused drama for Jane and her boyfriend, their other son. While I acknowledge I didn’t handle everything with Jane well, I certainly did not try to bring strife into their other sons life and did not force my boyfriend to delete and block her on social media. My question is how do I handle this situation and how do I handle the topic of my boyfriend’s family brings it up? Also as a side note my boyfriend tried to explain why he deleted her to his parents but they didn’t understand.
