Coming out to my boyfriend and mom

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I’m a lesbian and need help coming out. my mom is cool, i know she is, but will telling her make things awkward? Mostly my boyfriend is the one i need to come out to. We’ve been dating for 4 months! how do i explain that i’m a lesbian!?

Category: Tags: asked July 3, 2014

3 Answers

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The respectful thing is to just do it. ASAP. Not after a last date or a last sex. He deserves to know and you deserve to be honest with your life. Tell him soon so he doesn't feel mislead or used.
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I agree with nightcrawler. But I think that you should tell that your mom first. I don't think that by telling her that it would make things awkward. I mean she is your mother, and she should love you no matter what your sexual orientation is, and your orientation is not a big deal, I mean it doesn't make you worse than others. I think that with boyfriend you should be careful. I don't now how sensitive he is, but it may ''injure'' his self-esteem. But anyways lying to him wouldn't be the right thing to do. And it wouldn't be good for you too. Maybe just tel him the truth? I doubt that this is his fault, you just have to convince him that it wast his fault that you are lesbian. Good luck:)
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I agree with yall too. I came out to my parents (mom) and she was fine! She alredy kinda know but she excepted me and thats your main support. Your boyfriend probably do not want to break up with you but..since your lesbian you should break up with him.