Really sorry if you guys didn’t understand what I say, because I don’t speak english very well..
So… I am dating with a boy (that I’m gonna call V) for more than 1 year and I love him so much.But we had some problems in the beggining, because I met a friend (that I’m gonna call M) and we wish to start a poet’s group as the movie Dead Poets Society, because I write poems and so he does.And we couldn’t tell it for anyone:it was a secret society that we were going to start.
I got the idea of invinting my boyfriend to enter on it (he writes poems too). That was my idea.But I wasn’t in the group yet. My friend M sayed that I should discover the secret in a letter that he sent me, so I could enter in the group. Then, he sent me a lot of papers with some tips. And sometimes with some poems.
And there was a time that I needed his help for writting a text from a work in my school. It was a Sarau (I don’t know how it’s written in english).And I remember that I made a mousse in a day and he asked me if I could give him a little, so I did.But my boyfriend discovered all those things.
It didn’t matter from me.I mean, the things that I did in secret, because it was just something that I was going to tell him.But he told me that I should tell him when I started doing.And that I lied to him. I cried so much and I was feeling very depressed.
I don’t know what is my problem.I felt that It didn’t have problem and that he was the wrong for saying me all those things.. But I feel that I always do stupid things in my relationships. And I am always sad with things that sometimes doesn’t really matter, but I can’t stay indifferent with these things. I don’t know if you can understand me.. It’s like if he says in a joke that I am fat but I believe on it. And so I stay unhappy with him just because of this.
My mom tell me that I am very angry, that I am stressed and that I need to by more patient and keep calm.
I tried many times to change myself, but I can’t!
Some days ago, my boyfriend told me that I think that I know everything, that I don’t care about the other’s opinion.And that’s true!
My God, I wish I could be different!
Please, somebody could tell me how can I try to change myself? It’s not because somebody told me to change, or because somebody wants that I change, BUT I WANT TO!I’m gonna lose everyone that I love!
What is happening with me?
Help me, please!