Can you choose abstinence after you have already had sex?

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My boyfriend and i have never had sex, but in the past, i have had sex before, and he is still a virgin. Will our abstinence path work ? ? ?

Category: Tags: asked January 3, 2014

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Ofcourse it can work. Just like in sex, if you both are consenting adults, there should be nothing stopping you. However make sure that you both will work hard to keep it this way and that you both are committed to it, because too many people get cheated on and you should always make sure you both are happy with this arrangement.
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You mean abstinence until marriage? If that's what you mean, if both agree I don't see how it can't work...
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I think that's a great idea! The past is in the past, we all slip up! Good for you! :)
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It doesn't matter what you've done in the past. It can work if you don't do it again.
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Of course. Just because you've had sex doesn't mean you can't choose the abstinence path now. Just because I drank yesterday doesn't mean I can't chose to not drink today. It's the same concept. Some even have the belief that you can become a born again virgin. If you want to wait, you can wait. Your past decisions have no impact on that. Good luck, dear. If you ever need to talk, come to me. I'm always happen to listen.