Can someone chat to me that isn’t…

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…that isn’t happy and bouncy and has an answer for my problems. I just want to vent without advice or some positive, self righteous voice on the receiving end of the crap coming out my head. That would be awesome, cheers.

Category: asked October 19, 2013

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I have to ask something, Have you asked the person that's listening to withhold their opinion and jut listen. I personally never give advice as I am not a licensed therapist. I do however offer my opinion because you are asking for it. I am one of those happy and bubbly people all the time. I am also a very loving bubbly person that loves all living beings and can't help to want to share that everything WILL be OK. I just chose to live in this moment and care about nothing else. This is what I would chat with you about, second you tell me your problems I would probably suggest you realize how beautiful life is and you are missing it with NONSENSE. Live in the moment LOVE everyone and you will not have any CRAP coming out of your head as you put it. Just an opinion from a positive, self righteous voice :-)

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THIS is exactly what i'm talking about... the whole time reading this all i could think was 'shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up'

I realize i've basically just banished myself from this website but i feel like i'm on a roll and there's not really much this place has to offer anyway.

Maybe i'm too 'broken' to talk to people normally, maybe i'm just a different kind of negative, or human vessel of hatred, i don't know. All i know is i can't talk to someone about my kind of issues whilst they sit there telling me 'ohh it's okay, you will feel different someday, feelings don't last forever, VOM VOM VOM'

The only thing that makes me feel better at the moment is bottles of red wine and cigarettes, falling about my apartment whilst trying to write music and craughing (cry/laughing) at myself.

Don't tell me 'well that's an endless cycle mumble jumble' i've felt shit for 10 years without a break, meds don't help, doctors don't help, the mental health system where i live is fucking SHIT.

I post a simple question about someone to talk to without dick heads offering advice, or opinions, or help, or cock sucking motherfucking anything, just listen and say 'yeah, i know what you mean, life does suck'.

Misery loves company.




Well i guess that was it, have fun replying to all that shit that just happened.
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sure, i guess
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You can vent to me whenever you like and if you dot want advice, I won't give it. Il just listen :)
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Sometimes just listening is a therapy in itself.Lots of love xx
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I would be honored to listen to your troubles and give advice when needed. Message me whenever you'd like.
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I'll chat. And believe me, I'm not happy.
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I can help u out if u want
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If you wanna vent without a response, get a diary. Otherwise why waste someone's time with the negativity?
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I understand that venting itself is important, but how rude to say "or some positive, self righteous voice" - the reason most Listeners are on the receiving end is for positive support. Listening ITSELF is positive support, so for you to call that type of demeanor "self-righteous" in my opinion is snobbery and rude.
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I second this post. I've gotten horrible advice when I made it clear i just wanted to vent. And when someone tells you something then when you question it... it leads to "well I don't know". That actually tends to piss me off even more than I already was.
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Fark:

I've written in a diary for years, I want to talk to someone about what is going on in my life, I don't need someone all jolly on the other end telling me 'everything is going to be okay'.

I'm not saying everyone is self righteous, but that's what a lot of people are like on the listening end of things. The fact you get upset about petty posts like this proves you are exactly the sort of person I don't want to talk to about my shit, so why you are even responding to this post (twice) is beyond me.
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I can! I'm used to hearing venting. I need to improve my listening skills I think also. I also think I'm better at hearing about problems than I am with offering advice, (I'm always clueless on how to help people >,<) so that already like, covers half of it. I'm pretty busy some days but I can still read over messages sent to me if I get pulled off the computer or don't always have the time to do real time chat. I'd be happy to try and help! And believe me I won't be happy or bubbly about it, I can get that way sometimes but it never sticks for long with me.
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You guys just don't get it. :(
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Ask in the beginning for the person to just listen. Be ready to carry the entire conversation though.
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I have to ask something, Have you asked the person that's listening to withhold their opinion and jut listen. I personally never give advice as I am not a licensed therapist. I do however offer my opinion because you are asking for it. I am one of those happy and bubbly people all the time. I am also a very loving bubbly person that loves all living beings and can't help to want to share that everything WILL be OK. I just chose to live in this moment and care about nothing else. This is what I would chat with you about, second you tell me your problems I would probably suggest you realize how beautiful life is and you are missing it with NONSENSE. Live in the moment LOVE everyone and you will not have any CRAP coming out of your head as you put it. Just an opinion from a positive, self righteous voice :-)
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Absolutely. Feel free to talk to me or any other person on this site. I, as well as I'm sure a ton of others, might understand what you're going through. I hope you find a person to talk to, and especially feel better. Much love xx
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I'm willing to.I'm not a gushy person who tells people what they want to hear. I'm not rude about it but I'll just give you my honest opinion. And if you ever feel like you need advice then I would be willing to provide that.
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Of course, i'm here.
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I think anyone here could do what you ask, but they can't just guess...you have to tell them. We are here to help each others out, so if that would help you I don't see why anyone wouldn't colaborate ;) Good Luck! And if you haven't found anyone so far, count me in!...
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It sounds like you just want to yell at someone. Run around your house a bunch of times while screaming as loud as you can til you run out of energy.