Can I salvage this relationship?


My title may be slightly misleading, but I wasn’t sure.
Anywho, I have a coworker who I haven’t really had the chance to speak to yet (we’ll call him J) who I find attractive, but too intimidating to go up and talk to.
Last night, I went to a concert at a local venue and found out that he was in the first band that played. As he went to the bar to talk to one of the girls who had been dancing, he passed me, but avoided eye contact. It seemed like she turned him down and he walked hastily past me again and I caught his eye and smiled, but he held a stern look on his face and kept walking.
I ended up leaving shortly after the band I had came to see started playing as their live music was sub-par.

From my lack of sleep I decided to do something I consider stupid because I feared regretting not doing it. I went to his Facebook (I’m not friends with him, but I am friends with some of his other coworkers) and told him that I think he’s super attractive, but he intimidates me and that’s why I haven’t spoken to him in person. I feel like it came across as very creepy, and I’m not sure what to do.
I’m very uncomfortable about going to work tomorrow morning. What should I do?

Category: Tags: asked June 18, 2015