Can I hang out alone with a guy that has a girlfriend?

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I am best friends with a guy that has a girl friend (I’m also friends with her) and idk if its okay if I ask him to hang out alone. He has asked me to hang out alone but i dont want it to look like I’m trying to steal him. The times weve hung out alone he told me not to tell his gf but she found out twice and when she did she got really mad at me and him, so in closing is it okay for me to ask my best friend to hang out alone?

Category: asked December 24, 2013

3 Answers

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Yes, but if you know his girlfriend has a problem with him doing it secretly I think it would be better if you made sure she knows, so you don't get involved in their drama (they need to work out why he doesn't tell her).
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It's okay as long as his girlfriend doesn't mind, that's what I think if she's the jealous type then you might as well not do it but it all depends on what you are gonna do with the guy :)
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I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you are not doing anything that you know is wrong or that could be construed as wrong by the girlfriend. And if you are really his best friend, maybe talk to him about your concern so he can find out himself, what problems his girlfriend has exactly with the idea of you being alone with him so that you all can hash it out together.