Can I be put in a foster home if i am being emotionally abused?

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I’m 14 years old, my dad abuses me emotionally all the time. i have an interview with DCP next month on suspicion of child abuse but i dont know if i can be put in a foster home. I want to more than anything in this world! He is killing me. Not literally, but bit by bit. I stopped eating because he called me fat. He triggered my self harm. He made me depressed, antisocial and suicidal. Please answer this, and is there anyway i can persuade DCP to put me into a foster home?

Category: asked December 23, 2013

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I just saw this today, so it's pretty late, but I'm still going to say:
You say that he lead you to depression, self-harm, etc. To an extent, I agree. But it's up to you. If someone says something negative about you, you can't let it get to you. Keep your head up! As for the emotional abuse, it depends on how you define that. Saying that you're fat is, I suppose, in a sense, emotional abuse. But it isn't always greener on the other side. Foster homes can be a nightmare, I've heard. I would talk to someone you trust about the issue. And if DCP didn't put you in a foster home when you voiced your troubles, then unless he does true harm to you other than emotional abuse, you're staying with him. Plus, any teenager can say their parent is abusing them emotionally, even if it's just taking away a privilege for doing something the parents didn't approve of--that can also be a factor. Be strong! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here.
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Hello Mishkah, you've done the right thing in reaching out.

Just tell Child Services the truth. Everything. Every little secret. You tell them exactly how he treats you and don't leave anything out, and they will see to it that he doesn't hurt you anymore.

If you feel like you might hurt yourself or someone else, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. The lines are open 24 hours a day.

Please keep in contact and let us know how you are doing. Never forget that you matter, and you are not alone.