I need recommendations on:
How do I really know if I want to try to get my ex-gf back? (Right now, I definetely say yes)
Recommendations on how to go through my first break up (beside spending time with friends and waiting for the time to pass by)
How do I really know what she wants if she’s confused as can be? Should I wait for her to clear her mind and meanwhile, give her space?
Well, here’s my story: I’ve been dating my ex for about 2.5 years. We’re quite quite different like she’s a vegetarian and I love meat, she supports many social causes while I just support her supporting them and many things alike. BUT we managed to get over them most of the time, looking common ground Obviously, we argued sometimes like in every realtionship, not too often so it wasn’t toxic at all. But for the last 4 months, I saw her lack of spirit in everything she did (she was always passionate about everything, not only us, before it) She started changing some habits like enjoying things she previously critiziced harshly (like attending sports events or going to parties she swore she would never go because they never attracted to her) I started to start lacking confidence because of it, thpugh she always was trustworthy. Then she went to China for a summer program for about a month. One day, I went crazy and decided to quit on the relationship and breaked up with her because the distance was driving me mad. In a few days, I realized what a big mistake I just did and I missed her a lot, like never before. She came back from China and we agreed to see each other today in the morning. It was a long and satisfying talk because it came clear to me in which aspects I failed (ignoring the day I broke up with her) and that I could be totally capable of mending them in the future. The only problem is that “it takes two to tango” and she says she’s confused about her life in general and she’s in a process of rediscovering herself. She says she misses me, misses the relationship in general and she’s thankful I always tried to give her the best, but she just can’t have a relationship in this moment because she’s not Ok with herself. I think she’s wise to give herself time but still there’s a part of myself that want to be back together… So, what should I look for or how can I just keep going on with my life without her?