My bf is constantly playing games on his computer or xbox…I like playing games too, but his is a little out of control….it is the first thing he does when he wakes up, and when he gets home from work, and he will play from the time he gets home (ranging from 5 or 9) and play till midnight or later…I don’t always confront him about it, only occasionally and it’s because I want to go out and have fun together or do SOMETHING together instead of sitting inside when are off work or get out from work early (both of us work) and then he yells at me and says I am too clingy and to leave him “the fuck alone you clingy bitch.” But when he needs something or wants attention, I have to stop whatever I am Doing….
(I don’t want to create another post) also, whenever we fight he calls me a lot of bad names…such as: count, bitch, slit, who’re, etc. And he throws stuff at me or pushes me. And a lot of things are “my fault” like if anything bad happens it is cause of me. I also can’t talk to him about how I feel because he just turns it into a huge fight…or if he does something wrong like lies about who he is hanging with or talking to, he somehow turns it around back on me, and makes me feel like shit.
If I try to engage him sexually, he usually blows me off…unless he wants to…sex is usually about him and his needs, not mine.
Been together 2 1/2 years…all has happened gradually or suddenly.