I like a boy.. And he said he likes me.. But he won’t like do anything about it. And I’m too much of a scaredy cat to make the first move. What should I do? He lives a little while away but he’s a good friend and we talk almost everyday
If he won't do anything about it, don't waste your time on him. If a guy really likes you, he'll work to get you. Pull away, spend your time doing something you love, and don't focus on him. If he's really into you, honest to goodness, he'll chase you. If not, there is someone better. Don't settle for someone less then awesome.
welp. if you're gonna be shy, and HE'S gonna be shy, it's not going to go anywhere. From my own experience, the best way to progress in ANYTHING in your life, whether it be furthering a talent, bettering your social life, working toward some goal, or sparking a romance, you must be willing to get out of your comfort zone.
Give it a try! it's not the easiest thing to do, but once you've done it it'll get easier the next time. best of luck to you :)
He might just be as afraid of a relationship as you are. If you like him back and think you two are ready to progress into a relationship, go ahead and make the first move. I know it's scary to be the initiator, but if he says he likes you back, he most likely will say yes.
No offense, I'm sure he's a nice enough guy but at some point a real man just MAKES A MOVE. I think it's fair to give him a little more time, but if he just wimps out, he's never gonna be the guy that you need or deserve.Fingers crossed for ya.
Well, if you are both too shy to do anything about it then nothing will happen! You should make a move. Ask him to hangout and go see a movie or something. If he likes you he will definitely say yes! I know it's scary but it's really so worth it. Good luck!
See I can't just ask him to go hang out. We don't live close enough. Plus if he came all the way down here just to see me my parents would get really suspicious. I only see him when we're with our families. And we don't get alone time ever. So it's pretty hard sometimes.
Don't wait around for someone who isn't willing to fight for you. If he's not jumping up and down to be with you, you don't need to waste time worrying about him. Keep loving yourself and go on with your life. Whatever's meant to be will work itself out in the meantime. :]
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