Boy Issues

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Okay…so I am a teenage girl who goes to an all girls private school. I do theatre and such. Last January or February I went to a thespian thing involving a bunch of schools from all across the state. My friend and I met two guys and we kinda buddied up. We exchanged numbers, etc. (And my mom hated that I got the numbers of two random boys.) So we texted a bit during the rest of the school year, but that kinda stopped during the summer. So a few days ago both of them texted me. (btw, they are friends and go to the same school. They also live in a different city.) Anyway, “Bob” and “Rick” (fake names) both texted me. I think Bob had forgotten he had my number then texted me when Rick asked for it. See, apparently Rick had gotten a new phone and had lost all of his contacts… I don’t know if Rick specifically asked for my number or if he was going through Bob’s phone!!!
And that’s not all…So Bob and I always have funny and light hearted conversations while Rick and I have more serious conversations. Part of that is how their personalities are, but still. Our conversations are closer to heart to hearts. They’re deeper.
Anyway, late last night Rick and I were texting. He had some chores and such he needed to do. I jokingly said that I would sing him a song to make his chores go by faster. (I was just going to text him the lyrics to a song.) But then he said he was just going to do them in the morning. Then he proceeded to say that me and pandora radio are his new best friends! Then we said good-night, and I went to sleep.
I am really lost when it comes to boys. I don’t know whether he was being flirty or friendly or what! I know he got a girlfriend during the school year, but I don’t know if they’re still dating or what. I don’t know what to do at all!!

Category: Tags: asked October 25, 2013

1 Answer

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alright for a start they went up to you and your friend and got your numbers so that tells us ATTRACTION. Both boys therefore have in the past and may still find your attractive. 2nd what does it matter if rick forgot your number? your over thinking this like sooooooooo much forget that it's totally irrelevant! Finally i think rick was flirting and joking at the same time and trying to spark some sort of response in you which would reveal your feelings for him. if he started texting you again it's likely that he broke up with his girlfriend however there is no harm in asking him about it? if you're afraid of coming off as desperate by asking such a question make it more subtle.. so idk like "my friend charlotte started dating john who lives in the same city as you, do you know him etc etc " then you can say "hows your girlfriend going" like i know thats pretty bad but you get the idea i hope