So recently I’v been bottling up a lot of things that have been bothering me to the point i dont even talk to my Best friends about things. And that is kinda causing issues because i have nothing really good to talk about..and if i dont talk about the things that are bothering me or the shit in my life, the conversations kinda go them talking about them and then when their done we just sit there quietly for a long time till they ask whats up with me and i say something like “nothing much” or just revert the subject back to them. Eventually after a long silence, they just kinda “alrighty, imma go, talk later” and i go back to being lonely. Its not that i dont like being alone. I mean I dont fantasize about it all the time but i do like my alone time..its that im shutting down even with them. My best friend of 10 years and my other best friend of 1 year and some odd.. I honestly dont have a lot of friends which i am very much fine with. too many i really cant handle. i really cant. I dont wish to have more friends, I just dont want to close up on the ones i have. so in short; how do i open up again to them? Please dont say “just talk to them” Because thats the issue How do i reopen? how do i tell them whats wrong? How do i talk to them about anything? I dont want to lose them right now, i dont know…But i know this is the first step in losing a friend. Advice?