Biggest addiction and cant have it?? HELP..?

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so now my biggest addiction is the fault in our stars(seems crazy but yea), i’v read the book and waited 3 months till the film is realest, my mom promised me to go watch it but now she just say no because she is busy and then i told her i will go alone then she told me i cant leave you alone because you are too young and then she told maybe you should go with friends, actually i don’t have. so there is only one solution and that i can go with mom and she is busy so, i cant go. which is so disappointing because i’ve waited 3 months!! and then i cant even see it..

i thought maybe i could download it and watch it on my computer, and bring some popcorn and stuff, like i can make my own happiness, but it still would be depressing. and my happiness would not be the same as when i can go see it in the cinema.

its just disappointing, when you wait for something you really like and then its gone,when people promise you something and then they broke it. when you make your own happiness but you still not happy, when you are left with no friends, its just depressing.
also what really make me deppresed that i am in 3 months vacation, only one month left, in the other 2 months, i spend them in home!! which make me wanna cry all the time.

i want to go out and spend my summer but mom is busy, i am too young to get out alone, friends are not my friends anymore.. any help? [please]

THE POINT IS THAT I WANT SOMETHING AND CANT HAVE IT

Category: Tags: asked July 12, 2014

5 Answers

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THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME! LIKE TODAY! LITERALLY! Just chill out, relax. I started sleeping later like around 5 AM and I wake up around 2 PM to make my days a little less. But it was still depressing. I wanted to get out and watch TFIOS because I too read the book and I haven't watched the movie (which I wanted to see 3 months prior to the day it came out). I asked my friends if they wanted to go they said yes and they flaked on me last minute! How awesome is that? My mom wouldn't let me see it alone because, I'm also too young. All in all, when school is back, just find new friends. It's sort of hard to make them when it's Summer Vacation so, just make ones when school starts back. I also found really good apps to keep me entertained. Like the new Kim Kardashian app. And because I'm into fashion I have loads of fashion apps. Wattpad is good app if you read also. If you're interested in the fashion apps or any other apps to keep you busy, I'm here to help. Hope all goes well. (:
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Read "My Sister's Keeper" while waiting. It's better:)
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Or "Before I Die". The ending is the biggest tear jerker ever. Both of greater quality in my opinion
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Just take it easy on your mom. She might be actually busy, she is a grown woman with adult responsibilities (that includes giving you a home with paid bills and dinner ready, for example). I know how frustrating it can be, we all were teenagers once in our lives. But when you grow, you realize that most of the things we struggled upon on, were actually really simple… Like not going to see a movie, you know what I mean? Don't overreact, you sound too drastic when you say your mom broke a promise that was not the end of the world after all. Specialy when she is clearly not saying you can't go. She is saying to go with a friend. Get easy on her. I know it might suck to be on your summer vacations with not many things to do. That doesn't mean your mom should stop doing everything she probably does to just be a teenager on vacation. Please, I don't mean no harm, but you are considering your needs more than anyone else's (by that I mean your mom).
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Honestly, you need to suck it up and just appreciate what your mom does for you every day already. We all want things we can't have, which is why we must learn to either be patient or let it go. Just because you can't go see it now doesn't mean you won't see it later. Also, if your friends don't want to be your friends just because you're incapable of getting out to see them by no fault of your own, then perhaps they aren't the best people for you.

Basically, you're young, with ages left on this Earth to do the things you want. It'll all be fine in time, so don't blame your mother for what she can't control.