Are there teenage boys out there that don’t want girls just for sex?

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I’ve had 4 guys text me this month asking if I want to have sex with them, if I’ll send them nudes, or if I’ll give them a blow-job. All four of these guys I haven’t talked to once in the past year. I need to know if there are ANY guys that just want a girlfriend, and not immediate sex. Honestly, just need some hope.

Category: Tags: asked July 14, 2014

12 Answers

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Of course there are. You just need to spend real good time in assessing people's personality. Although it is the trend now, there are still some who values relationship more than the casual Sex. There are still some who will defy what society recently defined as the 'norm'
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There is still hope! I am one of the guys you were asking about, I may be "old fashioned" but I heavily beleive that sex isn't all there is to a realationship. I was raised to respect women, this being said there is still hope I'm not sure how many but there are still guys like me out there who think a solid realationship is more ideal than just a booty call. And before people ask no I am not homosexual/asexual I am straight so yes there is hope.
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I might sound biased for being a guy, but yes there are! There are many guys who aren't interested in a physical relationship and are just as shy as girls are. Unfortunately, they aren't open about it for fear of being mocked or laughed at due to peer pressure. I happen to know many of my friends who are like this.
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Well yes, there are... But I think generally speaking people usually call that being friends, not boyfriend / girlfriend. Not always though. As for those guys... they seem desperate... just continue to not talk to them.
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Yes there are. Unfortunately they are not as upfront about it. But from what you have said it sounds like you don't want someone who isn't interested in sex, you want someone who isn't only interested in sex. Most teenage guys (except for those who are asexual) are interested interested in sex on some level. The question is if they just want sex or want a relationship. The difficult part is finding these guys, in general they wont just go up to you and say "Hi, I'm not only interested in you for sex" you need to be more observant in finding these guys. Don't assume that you can tell just by looking. Try to find someone who you enjoy being around and who also enjoys being around you. It's not easy to find that type of person but they do exist. And don't pressure yourself to do anything with anyone before you are ready. Try to find someone you enjoy being around and until then remember, being single isn't a disease, there is nothing wrong with having standards.
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Not many. They're teenage boys. All they see are walking life support for a vagina. Don't send any pics, tell them to fuck themselves if they're going to act like asses. Or send them the most HIDEOUS naked picture you can find of someone online and then smile when they never talk to you again.
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Probably plenty of guys who are not just looking for sex, but don't expect them to just text you about it! ;)
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Indeed there are such guys who aren't interested in sex and just friendship/gfs but you will have to analyze them on your own.If someone asks for ur nudes... just block them straightaway. This will force them to think before they ask again to any other girl.
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There are guys like that. In general, most guys are good guys. Just as most girls are good girls. On a societal level, right now, and especially for those in the teen years, those people are marginalized. Girls are conditioned in the media to believe their value lies solely in their sexuality, and are taught that boys who don't focus on this perceived value are abnormal. Boys are conditioned to believe that sex, in and of itself, only has value in terms of numbers, frequency, and the conquest aspect. Even though most boys are nervous about the topic of sex, they feel appearances must be maintained. Of course, all kids of this age range focus on sex. This is natural. Some people have nothing else worth discussing, and these superficial people also tend to be the trendy people in many aspects. If you are really interested in finding those good guys, stop paying attention to the trends, and look at people you might not have before because they don't fit what is expected.
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There are absolutely people who are interested in more than just sex, but there are SO MANY that do, that it can seem as though they are the only ones to be found.

Be patient, be cautious, and never think that you are obligated or owe sex to someone. Nobody has a right to your body. You keep rejecting the bad ones, don't let the number of them put you off; there are BILLIONS of people on the planet.
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YES they are sometimes hard to find but they are defiantly there. That is such a common stereotype but its not true. Often its the guys that are shy or that don't go after girls as much.
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There's probably asexual lads who don't want sex at all. There's also men who don't treat women as objects or sluts (although those are particularly rare around the age of teenage years when the degenerate trash of human beings tend to casually get together for a better scale of the phenomenon). But those you've described are little shits, and nobody likes a little shit. That's why they're little shits.