Sometimes it just takes a couple tries to get someone decent on there. There was one night in particular I had to go through about 10 different people cause connections kept timing out/I kept getting responses like "wait you're 23 and scared of dating?" or "Oh well I wish I had someone interested in me" or... well.. much more explicit and disturbing "advice". After that though I found someone to talk to for almost 3 hours and felt so much better afterwards. Just gotta get past all the jerks and trolls, but I swear there are good people on chat. :)