Angry at Attraction?

Whenever I see a beautiful woman I am filled with resentment. This is hard. Other guys I know enjoy admiring a girl’s beauty but I can’t play along with that anymore. I mean, if I admire her I admit she has power over me. If I get angry then she still has power. When I watch pornography it feels like they are rubbing their beauty in my face while I sit here like a worthless piece of trash who is just lucky to see it. I can’t stand communicating with people in real life anymore. This is just too big of a problem. All I see are people with power and people without.

Can anyone see through this? I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

Category: Sexuality asked April 6, 2014

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Tulip Guy

6 Answers

It just sounds like you hate the thought of people being in control of you. Which is understandable, no one likes to be controlled. But hey, if really affecting you maybe see your GP or something? It could be just an imbalance of chemicals That's pretty common. You're not a worthless piece of trash for finding women attractive, and liking them.

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Brookly Jade

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If it hurts, don't do it. Try avoiding staring at people, try switching to amateur porn for the moment, but you seem to have a lot of rage/frustration in you, you should talk it out with someone, so you can deal with the issues under it. There are only a handful of people who really have power over you (your boss, your family if you depend on them), concentrate on that.

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rinseandrep

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Amateur porn wouldn't help. They're all beautiful, using it in a way that feels like an assault. I can't even talk to a decent girl because I get mad she has a vibrator, a good body, and all those things that make her attractive. I can't talk to anyone. I am disabled and cannot leave home much.

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Tulip Guy

Please keep offering insight. I really need help.

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Tulip Guy

It sounds to me like you are upset that you can't do the things they are doing or could be doing. Just a thought.

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