i did something wrong. i told my friend things that i shouldn’t have and for that he tells me that i’m untrustworthy.i don’t know if its true or not but apparently he “knows” me better than i do. i just want to know. am i untrustworthy.
Well what could you have told him that would have made you "untrustworthy"? did you betray his trust directly? tell secrets? and either way that doesnt make you and untrustworthy or bad person. Just stay true to yourself, and youll always do whats right for you. people will not always like your actions, so dont try to apease everyone.
When he says you are untrustworthy what it really means is that he feels betrayed. It's telling you about his state of mind at that moment. Don't take the "untrustworthy" label on and think negative about yourself. If you regret what you did then communicate that. If you don't regret it (i.e. you may not have been aware he expected certain things to be in confidence), seek to find out why he feels betrayed and how you can communicate better. Trust is hard to regain once lost. He may be bitter for a while over it.Only if you are chronically betraying people's trust are you an untrustworthy person. We all make mistakes.
It depends on why he thinks you are untrustworthy. Did you share secrets given to you by other people? Did you tell him things you might have done, which could result in breaking a person's trust? See, it all depends. Talk it out with him, and if you're not sure WHY exactly what you told him makes you untrustworthy, ask him. If it's a situation where you think or know you must apologize, then do so. Just from now on, don't share things with people that you're not supposed to or that you feel isn't a good idea to. Simply doing this one time doesn't exactly make you untrustworthy, but it still all depends on the situation. I hope everything works out for you and your friend, good luck. =)
What did you tell him that made you untrustworthy? Do you think there is any justification behind it? And if not, try and talk to him about it and tell him how much it bothers you that he said you were trustworthy. I can't answer that question because you don't really give any specifics. And if you can't get through to him, then just distance yourself from him and try to improve yourself as a person--because we are all human and we make mistakes. I admit to making an untrustworthy descision before--never again. I just hope to never do it again. But yeah just talk to him and see what's going on and if you two can move on from this conflict.