am I the only one thats afraid to lose the Vcard?

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Im 18. And im scared to lose it. Maybe its the supposed “pain” or the fact that I have to bare my scars on my inner thighs. Im just scared. Is that normal?

Category: Tags: asked November 4, 2013

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I think it's normal. Everyones scared their first time, just make sure you do it with someone you love (they won't care about your scars they'll think you're beautiful no matter what) and make sure you're ready.. That'll make it easier. But you're young, teenagers don't have to have sex, just slow down and when it come time to 'lose your Vcard' you'll be fine. (:
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First of all... There is nothing wrong with fearing sex. Especially when it comes to losing your virginity. Save it... For someone special. Trust me, you'll be glad you did. I lost mine on a hill behind a target when I was 15. No joke. Romantic, huh? Lol. But seriously dear.... when the right person and the right time comes... You won't worry about your scars. Honestly... A lot of people have those btw. And the person you lose it to will be gentle. It'll be a wonderful experience. But don't give it up until you're ready. Hugs
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You shouldn't be scared losing your virginity. You just need to find the right guy to do it. Pain is quite optional, I should say. Yet, that still depends on the experience your partner has. That "Pain" is only in your mind. You should really clear up your mind, and think again. Do it when YOU think you're ready, don't listen to the others AKA us. Good luck.
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I think it's normal to be afraid the first time, I know I was. Just don't lose your virginity to just anybody, make sure it's someone special. As for your scars on your thighs don't fret over those! I have scars on my left thigh and my boyfriend isn't bothered by them at all, the right person will see through them and love you for who you are.