am i really a lesbain

My First 3 relationships were with women they were true relationships its not because I didn’t like guys its just that these great girls came into my life then I decided to try with a guy friend and things felt weird so I ended things with him I told him I was gay but now looking back I don’t know if I didn’t like him because I was gay or just because I didn’t like him like that how do I truly find out if im gay should I try again with a guy ?

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justme135

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Sexuality is fluid. It changes with experience. Have you explored the possibility that you may be bisexual or pansexual? Because yes, it may be you and that particular guy did not click. You have plenty of time to work things out. If you find yourself attracted to a man, I say go for it. That doesn't mean you will never be attracted to a woman ever again. And maybe you will find that you are not attracted to men. Your understanding of your sexuality will develop with your experiences. Best of luck!

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Panpag

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If you want to put a label on yourself I find that Queer covers a lot of identities/sexualities. Also, if you like the label of Lesbian then you're a lesbian. And if you sleep with men, you're a lesbian who sleeps with men! I have a long history of relationships with women but I sleep with men quite often because why not? I enjoy it so I'm going to fucking do it and I don't give a shit what people say behind my back. I strongly identify as a LesbianDyke and I am proud of who I am.

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Emiliaheart