Am I jumping to conclusions?

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So there’s this girl, I’ve liked her for a few months now, in the beggining I went for it and asked her out, she didn’t accept. I took a step back and really got to know her, now we’re really good friends, we talk everyday, if we don’t see eachother we trade messages or call eachother we’ve actually had dinner together just the two of us twice, she usually doesn’t like showing it but she’s sweet, even if she gives off the image of being cold sometimes, up till a couple days ago I thought that, even thou we’re really close, she didn’t see me as more than just a friend but the first sign of change came after she read a message ( wich she has the annoying tendency to do) I sent to a girl (When I’m drunk I tend to tell everyone how much I like them) and she seemed jealous, at least different than how she’d usually act, since then she’s been acting different with me, she asked me to go have dinner with her, she sends me messages for almost no reason, like she just wants to talk to me, but the one that really makes me think is when I joke about her liking me, she usually answers me with another joke, but now she’s been trying to prove she doesn’t with little effort and just ends up smiling about it. For examole yesterday she left her phone charger at the office and she said she got distracted because I was talking, I joked saying I was a distraction for her, in a normal situation she’d joke back, instead, she tried explaining what she meant, when she couldn’t she just laughed. I don’t know if I’m just overthinking all this, I need someone’s oppinion, also, I haven’t done this in a while, if she does like me, what should my next step be?

Category: asked August 21, 2014

2 Answers

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I feel like you're in the kind of situation where just talking to her would be best. This kind of happened to me with my now-boyfriend of two years. I didn't want to be with him but eventually it just happened. You should probably just talk to her and say something like, "You know I've liked you for a while and I think I see signs that you maybe like me too" and just ask where you stand in your relationship/friendship. You never know until you ask! And if she does like you, just take her out and ask her to be your girlfriend. Simple :)
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I wouldn't recommend reading into too much. If you really want to know how someone feels or what they are thinking it is best to come right out and ask. See if she wants to make something more out of your relationship... figure out what she likes and make it happen! Go get 'er!