AM I being over emotional?

( also note that when I brought it up too him that I was upset he apologized and when he found out I cried over it he was all guilty and apologized a million times, though I didn’t mention number 3)So I’ve been with my bf for 2 years I love him more than the world but he told me about how last night him and his friends were on omegle last night and how there was a girl who said that she would pretty much show him hers if he showed her his. So he flashed her and she left. So pretty much he was trolled. And I have 3 responses to this the first is that ya know he was just being an idiot with his friends it was nothin serious gd was just playin and what not, and I mean he watches loads of porn and it’s never bothered me before so y should this be any different. The second is that it’s annoying because if the roles were reversed he would be pissed off. And something similar to roles being reversed hAs appened before an he was pissed. ( when I brought that up hE said that it was okay if I did the same thing he had done pretty much) and the third is the lingering one of: is he not happy with just me? And I don’t know whethe I’m being over dramatic or stupid. He also thought that when he told me I would joke about it.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked June 15, 2014

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rose

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3 Answers

You're entitled to tell your boyfriend when he does things that upset you. It sounds like he's listened to your concerns and he's sorry. I suppose you both need to sit down with each other and discuss whether you both are comfortable with the other person flashing people. There's no right or wrong answer, you just have to decide what you're happy with. And hopefully you'll both respect the other person's wishes.

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ProcedurallyGeneratedSprite

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I don't believe in the whole idea of being over emotional. Everyone reacts to certain situations differently, some more than others. That being said, I think you have all the right to be upset and feel the way you do.. I agree with the above answer and think you should talk about it.. Communicating one's feelings is always helpful. Tell him how you feel and work it out together.. I really hope everything gets better for you! Best of luck :)

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Miriam

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I think if you dont like something your guy or girl does you should be able to tell them, especially if they would do the same thing if the roles were reversed. I think you should tell him you don't like that and ask if he could refrain from doing it again. Compromise. If you can't do it, neither can he. If he continues to do it, you should break up. Keeping things to yourself and not telling him what bothers you can make the situation much much worse! You're holding it in and that builds up over time. I think you reacted corectly.

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