Ok, I’m talking to this girl that I works at this store down the street from me. I bought her a Christmas gift (being nice) gave it to her ask her did if she have a boyfriend and she just gave me her number. I called her and ask was she single and she said that she was talking to someone but they just a friend. Ok long story short, we dont talk for no more than 5 minutes because she always say let me call you back and dont do so. So Iong story short,
The next time when I got off the phone with her, I asked her what was she doing tomorrow she said im going over my… friends house (or they friends mothers house) because they mother is going to cook. Then a few minutes later, she said boy shut up to someone in the background, so I said and asked her, who was that your brother? She said, naw thats my sister.. What you think and say about that? Then I called her and I said wyd? She said about to go out with my friend, I her a girl in the background giggle and I just she (the girl im talking to) hunged up. Like.. Am I over exaggerating over her? Do you think she mean her male “friend” or what? What should I do? What you think about it?
Long story short the other night i had called her and asked was she busy and she said yeah, I knew that she wasnt because i heard like music in the background and the way she said yeah.
So i asked what time should i call her back she said i dont know? I said what about 10:30? She said ok.. I i didnt call her back until close to twelve.. No answer, So i texted her and i said if you want to talk to me because it seems like you dont you can text or better yet just call me.. so 2 in the morning she called i had my phone on silent, 2 minutes later
I got a voice message from her with nobody saying anything just music in the background and somebody getting in or out of a car.. I called her back tonight and said to her you know you can call me/text me sometimes you dont have to always wait until i call you, She told me like when you call and i dont answer you dont have to keep on calling i maybe busy with something you never know
its some more stuff going on with her… too
I tried to make that a long story short….
I never had a girlfriend before because i always get rejected, or have my feelings played with when i think i found someone who is interested in me for me here comes the relapse of me being hurt and let down again… Im tired of praying and waiting on GOD to do something ….
She told me from the jump that she doesnt want a relationship and that she was talking to someone but he’s just a friend. So when she told me that i told her yeah ok youre talking to me right now and until youre ready for a relationship lets get to know each other and when youre ready for one then we can just start a relationship and she said okay to it.
I mean like if she didnt have any interest in me none whatsoever then why give me her number then when i asked her if she had a boyfriend or not? I asked her her address she gave me one address then like the 2 weeks later i asked her again and she gave me another address.. Like there is no reason to like i just want to know so that i can know where should i come to pick you up for a date.
My intentions are good, She said to me after i asked her lets go out on her next off day she told me that its too cold right now lets wait until it warms up, But look… I asked her what did she do for new years she said i went out with my friend(s) so you mean to tell me that you can go out with your friends but not trying to go out with me?
I just have to get this stuff off of my chest… its more but yeah this is a long story short compared to what all that has happened.
SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? ANY ADVICE?
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS REALLY HAPPENING AND GOING ON WITH HER?
WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION?