Always scared and upset. What do I do?

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I have a job where I barely do productive or good work because I’m constantly worried about messing up and making mistakes and the anxiety and stress keep from doing anything well or on time. I have been living with my older sister for a year and am planning to move out on mutual agreement. I am looking for places and trying to find a place I can move to quick but she keeps constantly pushing me into moving out fast while I am having trouble finding a place. She is amazingly kind and generous and I love her but a lot of times the way she talks to me brings me down. I don’t how to solve it because I don’t want to get in an argument because I know that we will. It doesn’t help that she has also been going through a stressful time. All these seemingly little things seem to be eating me up with misery and I feel at loss. Perpetually scared and upset.

Category: Tags: asked June 14, 2013

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Everything will be fine, look at your job, you can only do the best that you can do, no one can ask more out of you than your absolute best, be proud of how you handle things and how much effort you put into them, and by then you will already feel accomplished you won't worry about "messing up". As far as moving out goes, just relax, get online and start looking, if she urges you then ask for her help, then that's a search that is done twice as efficiently. Don't worry, take one thing at a time and you will be able to make things work easier for you day by day. :)