I have a job where I barely do productive or good work because I’m constantly worried about messing up and making mistakes and the anxiety and stress keep from doing anything well or on time. I have been living with my older sister for a year and am planning to move out on mutual agreement. I am looking for places and trying to find a place I can move to quick but she keeps constantly pushing me into moving out fast while I am having trouble finding a place. She is amazingly kind and generous and I love her but a lot of times the way she talks to me brings me down. I don’t how to solve it because I don’t want to get in an argument because I know that we will. It doesn’t help that she has also been going through a stressful time. All these seemingly little things seem to be eating me up with misery and I feel at loss. Perpetually scared and upset.