advice please, I could use some

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Hi, Hello, I’ve got a little bit of a problemy thing on my hands. I recently admitted to myself that I’m Bisexual (I’m out to no one I know and not planning on changing that anytime soon). The reason for me doing so is the girl I’m crushing on, I’ve known her for as long as I can remember and we were friends for a long time, even best friends for a while. But now she started treating me like crap and I’m not having it any easyer with her being someone I’d do anything for (I would literally die for her if I had to). Everytime she’s near me I try to be as close to her as possible, but she doesn’t talk to me anymore unless she really has to. It’s breaking my heart and I’ve told myself so many times I should let her go but I just can’t. She’s the main thing on my mind 24/7. She has no clue how I feel about her and I’m pretty sure she’s straight. So what I’m asking is how do I get over her? I usually get way to attached to one person that when they leave (what they always seem to do) I get depressed and have to pick myself up again, because no one else ever seems to feel like helping with that.

Category: asked March 5, 2015

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First, I'd try to understand what happened. If you guys have been close, there must be a reason why she acts that way now. It's probably fixable. Try to win her back as a friend first.

Now, getting over someone can be a very hard thing to do and it takes a lots of time there is no miracle drug you can take to make yourself forget about your feelings for them. Give it time, see other people, force yourself o get up in the morning and do something meaningful of your day, get involved in what you're passionate about. It will take time, but it's not impossible at all.
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I think it goes through mourning the death of your crush and friendship, and to start telling yourself, when you think stuff like "I would die for her", that you don't die for so someone who doesn't care as much about you. So take care, do nice things, keep busy and be sad because things didn't go as you liked, until it hurts less and eventually you can feel like looking to the future.