Advice for girls masturbating?

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So does anyone have any advice for female masturbation?
I am able to get aroused, but can’t get past that stage. What can I do to orgasm?

EDIT: Please, I could really do with some help. Masturbating really helps me relieve a lot of stress.

Category: Tags: asked August 11, 2013

9 Answers

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Shower heads and bathtub faucets are your friends! Also, sometimes it's super helpful to not worry too much about the "end goal." It can be easier to get there by just enjoying the process!Here's a super helpful website for advice type things: http://www.scarleteen.com/and this website: http://dodsonandross.com/topic/how-orgasm may definitely be helpful! It's super sex positive, which is awesome, but can also be a little surprising at first, so just be aware of that.Good luck, and have fun! :)
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It's hard to tell someone how to orgasm since every person is different. Best thing you can do for achieving an orgasm is to do whatever feels good.This can be done many ways: -Fantasize -Porn (any medium) -pillow humping (between your legs and just hump away. You can wear underwear, try a towel with a texture to it, nude, anything you can think of) -come-hither motion when fingering so you stimulate your G-spot area -masturbate in different positions -moan to yourself if sounds help get you going -touch yourself where ever it feels right -my suggestion for make-shift dildos is a bubble wand in a plastic tube-like bottle. But you can use anything you want. Just make sure that it's firm and sanitary. (always clean what you use after you're done. If you fail to clean it before another use...just. Please be wise. You do not want old, dried up bodily fluids entering your body even if it's your own.) -keep going, keep exploring.
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Make sure to know where your clitoris is, I think that's number one. You want to start off there, rubbing it until you start to get more aroused. Shower heads ARE a pretty good idea for most people. It's really different for a lot of people, keep trying :) and do have fun!!!
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Tip1: Masturbate without taking off your pants/ underwear

Tip2: Do it in bed, being in a warm place with fluffy and soft blankets helps

Tip3: Make sure to be save, home alone, or at night, you should be stress free.

Tip4: Try different things, gushing water, vegetables, or toys.

Tip5: Nibble on certain fruits, strawberries and chocolate right before starting,

Also try smelling perfumes and having flowers these are known to increase the mood..

Tip6: make your room more cheerful and comfortable by keeping it clean, neat, and well illuminated.
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Are you old enough to shop online? But a vibrator off of Amazon. You'll never need to ask for advice again. Exploring your body is perfectly normal and is quite fun. It can be frustrating to not be able to come to a climax, as that's one of the best feelings ever. If you aren't old enough to buy a sex toy, perhaps ask one of your female friends that is. If that's too embarrassing, but a vibrating toothbrush and a pack of condoms. Wrap the toothbrush head with toilet paper to desired girth, put condom over it and ta-da! You've got a dildo and a vibrator all in one.
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From what I've heard, its pretty common to not be able to orgasm when you first start masturbating. I didn't have an orgasm until I had been masturbating for almost a year! Take it slow at first. Explore yourself in a stress-free environment, figure out what you like. Some people find it helpful to bust out a little compact mirror and use it to get a good look at what you're dealing with. Removable showerheads are your friends. Get some good porn. I'm not a big fan of straight up porn, but erotic fiction is good as long as its well written (e.g. not fifty shades).
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Use a mechanical toothbrush. Or any object thats not sharp, but somewhat long and not pointy, and doesnt have rough edges. I use like a mascara tube, or the handle of my hair brush, and while inserting it in and out with one hand (fast and repeatedly) use another hand and place it right about your clit. Then do fast circular motions. Do both at the same time. It only takes a couple minutes to actually orgasm.
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So this might sound really weird, but first: learn how to delete your browser history. Then, look up some porn. Make sure that you are very specific in your description and look up any words or phrases that you don't the meaning of to avoid seeing something disturbing or anything that might trigger you. Remember, everyone is different and if it takes some porn for a girl to get off, no big deal! You can also try reading sexual things like stories on fanfiction.net. Best of luck!
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If you have a smart phone, there is an app called HappyPlayTime. It is an educational app for teaching women how to get off. Also, I would suggest maybe reading some fanfiction. It sounds nerdy but if you don't want to actually see anything its a good way to fantasize. Another good way is just to touch yourself and get familiar with your body and what you like. Remember, this isn't a porno. Take as much time as you need to get off! Hope this was helpful!