I am asking a question of if I should be with this guy or am I wasting my time?
I meet this guy my first year of college. I automatically fell for him. We were together for about an year and a half. Though out that time, there had been a lot of drama.
During a month break up, I got back together with one of my exes. I got pregnant. I did not know I was pregnant; until I had my miscarriage. We broke up. He moved to Washington D.C, to transfer schools.
We broke up and he left in December. Despite the fact that I wrongly accused him of lying to me (he is sterile) and getting me pregnant, he was determined to get in contact with me. He spent months emailing me, and then through the grape vine got my number. This was in august.
At the time I was in a new relationship and i did not want to split up my new boyfriend. At the end of our conversation, he told me: how much he love me , missed me, was searching for me and hypothetically asked me to marry him.
Shortly after our talk, I broke up with my boyfriend and decide that I wanted to meet my ex. We scheduled a time, but he never came down to see me. I was crushed.
A year later, in a new relationship, I am about to move to the other side of the country. I decided to contact him. I tell him about my move and my unwavering feelings. He wanted to me up with me again. I could not let him this time.
We have always had communication problems. I would consistently try to contact him, and i would end up feeling ignored. He is the type of person that if he does not have anything to say , he won’t talk.
I tried and tried to contact him. I plan on moving back to the state that we are both from sometime in the next 6 months. I trying to asking where he would like us to be at in the future.
Should I continue to seek him out or let him fall off the face of the earth.
By the way, i truly believe he is the love of my life.