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    St. James posted an update 8 years ago

    I still think that little things are what make true happiness.

    I’ve known so many people, so many friends, and still got nobody to share these with.
    I’m not saying I look for a wife now. Just a couple of friends with I can spend an afternoon watching the football game, going to a concert or just a lazy weekend playing videogames eating junk.
    In…[Read more]

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    • Oli replied 8 years ago

      I’m sure you will find things to make you happy @viejosalse, do surround yourself with people who you can spend a good time with, everyone deserves a wonderful group around them, you do too, remember to stay positive and make brilliant things happen, you can do it, keep going and never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    St. James replied to the forum topic Looking to skype with a group of people in the group Group logoSkype Exchange 8 years, 1 month ago

    Sure. Now I have some free weeks.
    My ID: viejo-salse

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    St. James posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    ♪♫I’m tired of waiting
    An’ closing my eyes
    I’m asking myself
    Why is it all my horizons
    Are so far away

    I look in the mirror
    Don’t like what I see
    In my reflection
    A stranger is staring at me
    ….

    The candle is burning
    It’s way down low
    I just need someone
    To show me the way to go
    Which way to go.♪♫

    GOSH! What an amazing song!

    Mood : Relaxed
    • It’s good to see you relaxed @viejosalse, keep being awesome and listening to songs that make you feel happy, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Michael posted an update Anyone else have problems with procrastination here? Or hard time concentrating? Or having low energy?? I could say what i think i have but i’m not a doctor… View

    I am having them right now :9 Any advice or solutions would be nice

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    St. James posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    If you don’t love yourself, nobody is going to.
    The only one you’ll be with until the last day is you!

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: rucah lane posted an update who wants to be my boyfriend??! View

    You don’t want a beer or a coffee to know each other first?
    :9

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: cat posted an update Now I have 2 job options…what a dilemma. One pays less but is closer and can require less hours (Which I need because of schooling). The others mays a bit more by 50 cents but is further away […] View

    Take the first one. Is better to have a little less money than missing events of your life. Specially if you’re studying. The money you will earn is going to turn into all the time you spend going to that work and all the bad nights you’re gonna have studying with no time. Good Luck!

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    St. James posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    Hey guys. I’m at Trevor’s (@nightwake) room at Discord. I really like this place as a complement to blah! No personal info exchange, just enter and start chatting or talking.
    There are special rooms for each need. Vent, talk about X topic or just hang out.

    https://discordapp.com/channels/142290334326456320/142290334326456320

    Mood : Relaxed
    • Yeah I eventually figured it out and setup a perma-link. I had a lot going on over this past month and ended up drifting away from Discord before I was at least able to establish a core group of “regulars” and leave 1-2 of them in charge of the place with full admin privileges, etc. Good news though, I’m back! We proved it works and people are…[Read more]

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: BlahTherapy Moderation posted an update Conduct WarningAbusive behavior will not be tolerated on BlahTherapy in any measure. This is a community of compassion and support, and any behavior not in the spirit of […] View

    Question: May you please fix the Groups order? It just works by number of members, not by name or Date or alphabetical. Thanks!

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: BlahTherapy Moderation posted an update Conduct WarningAbusive behavior will not be tolerated on BlahTherapy in any measure. This is a community of compassion and support, and any behavior not in the spirit of […] View

    Question: May you please fix the Groups order? It just works by number of members, not by name or Date or alphabetical. Thanks!

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been awhile since I’ve liked someone, and now that I think I’m kind of starting to, my brain is like, ”No, you idiot, that’s dangerous!” It’s weird, because I’m fully aware that not […] View

    If you won’t take the risk, the things are not gonna change.
    You don’t know what you’re missing!
    And if bad-luckily you get hurt, at least you won’t feel the eternal regret of not taking that change.

    Go for it! As the song say: ♪And things wil never change, until you want them to♫

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    St. James replied to the forum topic Video Chat? in the group Group logoSkype Exchange 8 years, 2 months ago

    Sure, why not? Mi skype id is viejo-salse

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Trevor posted an update TL;DR – I created a Discord server and Band group to we can actually chat live, post things, meet new people, etc. Not as a replacement to this site, but as a supplement to it.Discord […] View

    Those are some great ideas! It is true this place is kind of dead. Hope you can make it succeed in the next weeks!
    I also want to add ” https://appear.in/blah
    In this place we can have a video chat/audio chat/text chat with up to 8 people at once. Like Skype but automatic, no installing anything and no personal info exchange. Has a lot of…[Read more]

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    St. James posted an update 8 years, 3 months ago

    So, a couple months ago I stopped texting or calling people I usually talked to to see if hey text/call back. Just one or two did, the rest? Aren’t they suppossed to be my friends?
    Even my best female friend!

    Mood : Confused
    • You deserve to be surrounded by people who will be there for you no matter what @viejosalse, I’m sure you will meet understanding friends who will call and reply to you, everyone needs nice individuals around them, you do too, stay positive and keep smiling, you can do it, message me anytime if you want to chat, my inbox is always open, stay…[Read more]

    • @viejosalse It’s good a couple did! The other ones are not necessarily less of your friends, they just aren’t as reciprocal as you wish them to be, you can adapt to the lesser frequency of contact and invest your new free time in yourself or in meeting new people, who are going to be nothing, or frequent contact friends, or seldom contact…[Read more]

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update Anyone want to talk?? View

    Sure. PM me when you want, I’ll be glad to listen

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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Quasita posted an update Really, now, how can so many people be sitting there waiting for people to spill their guts to them, only to be such completely moronic assholes? I seriously tried really hard to get into […] View

    Is question of luck, I guess. There are days with lovely kind people and days with lots of ”aholes”!

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    St. James replied to the forum topic Help in the group Group logoAspiring Writers 8 years, 3 months ago

    Easy. Make a “rain of ideas”.
    Write your plain ideas separately, for example:
    1)Story located in the 70′s
    2)Need a villain
    3)Social content
    4)Something about helping little comunities

    And so on until […]

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    St. James joined the group Group logoAspiring Writers 8 years, 3 months ago

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    St. James posted an update 8 years, 3 months ago

    People, let me ask you something.
    Why do you get to the hard choice of cutting yourself?
    I know some do it because of relieving pain or some like that, but I don’t fully understand it.
    I would like to know because now I’m not sure how to give advice to people about this.
    I also have seen that a lot of people here have this condition, so I’ll…[Read more]

    Mood : Hopeful
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    St. James posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I’ve decided to no longer care what anyone else thinks. Call it a New Years Resolution, easier said then done though. Any advice would be greatly appreciated View

    It is hard at first, but then you’ll realise that you’re ok doing things that make you happy.
    Just don’t do anything that can hurt someone else and you’ll feel really free, you know, without caring about how others see you and also a little ”f*ck it” attitude :)

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