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    Tonettanetta posted an update 7 months, 4 weeks ago

    I don’t feel like much anymore. My health is at its worst, I wake up stressed every day, I’ve either lost interest in my hobbies or I’ve stopped them b/c I’m tired of my husband critiquing them and it’s better to not do them than have him constantly over my shoulder criticizing me…idk. I’m just really tired.

    Mood : Apathetic
    • Please take care of yourself @trojenta95, you are such a wonderful person who deserves to feel positive and happy mentally, emotionally and physically, your husband shouldn’t criticize your hobbies, he should be supportive and loving so you can be upbeat about and put your heart into your hobbies, everything will be OK and things will work out for…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    I haven’t posted on here in a while mainly because things were getting better. However, my chronic pain is ten times worse and I’ve felt like my husband isn’t there for me like I sometimes need him to be. I don’t know how to talk to him about it. Each time I try he gets sad and has said how I feel has made him want to kill himself for not…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • I would talk to your husband about how you feel @trojenta95, let him know that you are a team, a couple that is there to support and love each other during difficult times, be as honest and open with him as you can, look after yourself too and stay healthy, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    My husband’s depression causes him to feel sad about not being able to cure my chronic pain instead of comforting me and helping me around the house. He’ll feel really sad about not doing things for me but never do them. Is it wrong to feel lonely and overwhelmed by this?

    Mood : Depressed
    • @trojenta95 your husband needs to seperate things. After all, aren’t you the one with a chronic illness? You’re the one in pain all the time… he should at least help. Helping would make him feel usefull and obviously help you alot. You need to be straightforward with him about this

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    found out three weeks before my wedding that my family doesn’t support my decision.. they popped a bubble that needed popping but now I feel empty inside.. it’s all my fault..

    Mood : Drained
    • Your family really should support you @trojenta95, let them know that you love your partner, don’t blame yourself, focus on making each day with the person you care about good, do your best to stay positive and go forward, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    This is the heaviest I’ve been in my entire life so far, and I’m so ashamed of it… I know no one else is bothered by it, but I feel so sick of being overweight..

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please be kind to yourself @trojenta95, you are amazing and beautiful inside and out, look in the mirror and tell yourself how incredible you are every-day, smile and embrace how fabulous you are, remember to smile and love yourself sweetie, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message…[Read more]

    • @trojenta95 I’ve met people are more curvy or even overweight who are AMAZING and 100x funny than most people. Just because society says “skinny is pretty” doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Everyone has their own body types, love yourself. Now in another note if you feel your weight is making your health bad is another issue. I recommend…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years ago

    Seeing him hurting breaks my heart more than anything else…

    • Oli replied 6 years ago

      Support him as much as you can @trojenta95, let him know that you will always be there for him no matter what, keep being the sweet friend that you are towards him, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Tonettanetta posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: Tonettanetta posted an update Honestly, they were right: gaming servers are no place for women. If you want respect, stay off of them. I’m quitting all of mine and never looking back. View

    my friend addressed me as ”she” and it all went to pot after that

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    Tonettanetta posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: Tonettanetta posted an update Honestly, they were right: gaming servers are no place for women. If you want respect, stay off of them. I’m quitting all of mine and never looking back. View

    my friend addressed me as ”she” and it all went to pot after that

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years ago

    I miss you more than anything but I know you’re never coming back…

    Mood : Remorseful
    • Hey hun,

      What happened? I hope your okay stay strong if you need any help feel free to message me god bless you stay strong

    • Oli replied 6 years ago

      Hopefully you can make things work with this person @trojenta95, try to contact them and see if you can sort things, I’m sure everything will be OK, I’m always here if you need someone to confide in, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 1 month ago

    Honestly, they were right: gaming servers are no place for women. If you want respect, stay off of them. I’m quitting all of mine and never looking back.

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Don’t let mean people get you down @trojenta95, you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity by others, ignore those who are ignorant, unfortunately it’s easy for people to hide behind their keyboards, I’m sure you will find a place where you can play and where you can be treated nicely, remember you will always be a valued and…[Read more]

    • What do you mean by gaming servers? Do you need to tell people you’re a man or woman? I mean it shouldn’t matter either way.

    • Well the problem is that some individuals depend on others for validity on images that they have a acquired and when that image is under attack the individual fragments(anxiety)(sadness) and so on.

    • my friend addressed me as ”she” and it all went to pot after that

    • my friend addressed me as ”she” and it all went to pot after that

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    Tonettanetta changed their profile picture 6 years, 4 months ago

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 4 months ago

    Quote of the week from my ex: ”How am I supposed to find someone who loves me for me like you do?”

    Mood : Aggravated
    • He’ll figure it out, hir problem.

    • I’m sure you will find someone who will love you unconditionally and will treat you right @trojenta95, everyone deserves that special someone in their lives, you do too, a strong relationship built on trust will happen to you, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago

    Just don’t, ok? You’ve done enough damage

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Anyone who hurts you isn’t worth your time @trojenta95, surround yourself with compassionate and loving people who will always love you and will always stick by you, don’t let anything or anyone that has hurt you have any more power over you hun, you can do this, focus on being the special and good person that you are, keep smiling and be…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago

    periodically, I go through and get rid of social media accounts just because I can’t even stand online social interactions. I think I have a problem..oh well.

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago

    I’m done with this site…someone just replied ”no one cares, loser” when I went to vent about some events going on in my life right now…I’m sorry I can’t do this anymore

    • Whoever did that is an awful person, please don’t see it as a reflection of this site. There are many people here who would love to listen. Unfortunately the vent/listen chat has trolls, that’s the problem of having strangers on a live chat. But you can talk to any regular community member here and they’d never treat you that way.

    • it’s okay if you leave this site. just please, please stay safe and don’t do anything you would regret <3

    • Please don’t let trolls or mean people get you down @trojenta95, there are so many more compassionate, understanding and loving people on this site who you can always talk too, I’m always here if you ever need someone, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago

    Cyberbullying is a thing guys…and it sucks….

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    • Please don’t let anyone be mean or horrible to you @trojenta95, you are such a beautiful and amazing person who deserves to be treated with love, respect and dignity by others, ignore those who are ignorant and seek to bring you down, focus on being the special individual that you are, you can do this, hold your head up high and stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Tonettanetta posted a new activity comment 6 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Tonettanetta posted an update Narcolepsy or Sleep apnea….ugh make up your mind!!!!! View

    I have to do a third sleep study…I’m so tired of this! I just wish they’d tell me what was wrong and fix it…I have to meet with my University tomorrow to get my schedule changed to accommodate my health…it’s nice but I just want it to be over with.

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago

    Narcolepsy or Sleep apnea….ugh make up your mind!!!!!

    Mood : Angry
    • Are you OK? @trojenta95 :) (hugs)

    • I have to do a third sleep study…I’m so tired of this! I just wish they’d tell me what was wrong and fix it…I have to meet with my University tomorrow to get my schedule changed to accommodate my health…it’s nice but I just want it to be over with.

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