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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Probably the toughest thing in my currently relationship is letting go and getting over the issues we have faced. We’ve fought, we’ve made up, but every once in a while I still think about the reasons we had the fights. I wish my mind would just chill out and let me live. Because the reasons we had the fight are gone now. Just distant memories.…[Read more]

    • Try to not focus on the disagreements and arguments you have with your partner @xxbaybayxx, it is normal to fight with your partner Oliver but do your best to make your relationship stronger and more loving as each day passes, be each other’s soulmates and create as many wonderful moments together as you can Oliver, everything will be OK Oliver,…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    “Why didn’t you tell me you moved to NY wtf?”

    Oh I don’t know, maybe because for one you irritate me and I don’t even WANT to be friends anymore. And two, I was helping you with your entire pregnancy and even offered to give you ALL of my daughters old stuff and you didn’t even invite me to the baby shower, let alone message me that you…[Read more]

    • That’s not right at all @xxbaybayxx, your friend should be kind towards you and try to be close with you, true friends always stick by each other and share wonderful moments with each other which creates a lasting bond and supportive friendship, this friend just ignored you and didn’t include you, you deserve so much better Oliver, remember to…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Can having a baby just not be as stressful as this has been? With my first I have had NO issues with her at all. But this pregnancy I’ve dealt with bleeding, doctors had issues finding a heartbeat and all kinds of pains.

    I’ve had to get a sonogram EVERY SINGLE appointment so far and it’s driving me nuts. Sure we leave knowing the baby is fine…[Read more]

    • I’m sure you will be OK and your little bundle of joy will be born healthy @xxbaybayxx, take care of yourself Oliver, keep going to regular appointments with your doctor Oliver during your pregnancy, I know this can be a worrying and stressful time for an expectant parent, but remember to look after yourself Oliver, you have your wonderful family…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    i am always there for so many of my friends and family members and when it comes to me, they couldn’t care less. when it comes down to it, only a few are my true friends and family. i just wish they wouldn’t hang around assholes wh otreat me like shit or anyone else

    • I want to see you being surrounded by compassionate, loving and supportive people @invincible, everyone deserves good friends and family around them sweetie, you do too beautiful angel Cecelia, please know so many people care about you Cecelia, you truly deserve to feel appreciated and looked after sweetheart, get rid of toxic people Cecelia and…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    wisdom teeth come out tomorrow

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Everything will be OK @invincible, look after your health sweetie and take care of yourself, remember to always be the beautiful and lovely angel that you are Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • thanks Oli, it means a lot. I have been tired, but healing fast <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    i feel so out of control and weak, and i feel like i want to tell people but i feel too ashamed for what is happening. everything has just spiraled and it’s just easier to give up my control into something that is damaging.

    • Please talk to someone about how you are feeling @invincible, don’t bottle things up beautiful angel Cecelia, you are such a lovely, kind and amazing angel who truly deserves to feel happy and on top of the world sweetheart, everything will be OK Cecelia, do reach out to someone you trust or any of us here on BT, we all love and care about you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    for ONCE i wish i could attract someone who I too am also attracted to. Jesus.

    • You will meet your soulmate @invincible, someone amazing is out there for you beautiful angel Cecelia, one day a loving and supportive partner will make you so happy sweetie, you will meet someone who is similar to you, someone you can bond with and create fantastic memories with, please know you are so deserving of love and romance in your life…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    People think I want ’attention’ like what am I, 5? No. I want and NEED something much more vital than petty attention. I just want people to CARE and LOVE and HELP/SUPPORT me emotionally through hard times.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, I have been in the same situation with certain family members too beautiful angel Cecelia, they think I want ‘attention’ when all I want is someone to talk too and reach out too, we all deserve to be loved and cared for sweetheart, to have compassionate people around us especially during difficult times, I want…[Read more]

    • @invincible, the entire BT community loves you, and we are all here for you. You are NEVER, EVER alone! Inbox me if you need ANYTHING at all, because I’m here for you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    I want to and try to be open and vulnerable with what is going on and what is affecting me and in what ways but all i get is ignored and uninterested in. I am really trying and it would be a lot more helpful if my family & friends would help & support me. Or you know, like, CARE.

    • Anyone who ignores you when you are feeling upset isn’t worth it @invincible, you deserve to feel comforted, supported, taken care of and looked after beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to always surround yourself with as much compassion, empathy, love and kindness as you can sweetie, please know I’ll always be here for you if you ever need to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    It’s like nothing can ever be wrong with me, I have to be perfect and emotionless. Well I am tired of this – it only makes me feel like I should turn cold & mean. But that is not me! I just wish my family member would care and see what the situations going on rn are doing to me.
    I need to get USED to the fact that no one cares and that only I…[Read more]

    • Your family should treat you with love and care @invincible, they should be supportive towards you beautiful angel Cecelia and help you when you feel upset sweetheart, I don’t want to see you sad sweetie but it is OK to let down your walls when you feel overwhelmed, everyone deserves compassionate people around them hun, you do too, please…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    need to vent without someone feeling annoyed or judgemental

    • Talk to me @invincible, I’ll always be here for you beautiful angel Cecelia, I want to see you feeling happy, positive and upbeat sweetheart, tell me what’s on your mind hun, I will never judge you Cecelia, I want the best for you angel, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent sweetie, stay strong, you are never alone :)[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    did a walk with my grandmother for Alzheimer’s to end it. Walked 3 miles and had a good time. We wore purple and there were lots of booths with fun things and items to get before/after the walk. I enjoyed spending time with her and talking!

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      That’s so lovely and inspiring @invincible, you are such a beautiful soul sweetheart who is truly helping others overcome struggles in their lives, remember to take care of yourself too wonderful angel Cecelia, keep spending time with your grandma and always be there for her, glad you had a fantastic day sweetie, remember to keep smiling and…[Read more]

    • Those walks are very encouraging as well as heartwarming. I’ve done a few for multiple sclerosis (my mother has it, my sister has it, and a couple of people from my mom’s side of the family has it), and those days were some of the best. Haven’t done any walks in awhile, but walking for a cause brings a good feeling.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    totally stressed, ate a bunch of the halloween candy because i was craving something sweet and bad for my body and then i threw most of it up because i dont want that shit in my body. I walked for over an hour today and felt good. I need to tell my gradmother to hide the sweets and bad food for me so i don’t get so stressed and depressed and give…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t feel stressed and overwhelmed @invincible, do relax as best you can and take care of yourself beautiful angel Cecelia, remember to stay positive, healthy and happy, try to eat food that will make you feel great in mind and body Cecelia, it’s good to see that you are blocking yourself from negative things in life, stay focused on…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    this is making me fucking ill all this drama shit so tense i can’t concentrate on work i should
    ve done already. no one seems to understand or give one shit. excpet one person which i am grateful for. everyone else is making this just mpore hurtful & harder to cope.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t let drama make you upset @invincible, try to relax as best you can sweetie and focus on making yourself feel wonderful, you are such a beautiful angel Cecelia who truly deserves happiness and love in her life, surround yourself with all the things that bring you joy and keep going forward with optimism and positivity, you will make…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    So overwhelmed, annoyed and upset by this drama around me. God… it just makes me wanna sleep all day, not care about anything and eat bad food.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t let negativity and drama get you down @invincible, stay positive sweetie and surround yourself with as much happiness, brightness and love as you can Cecelia, you are such a beautiful angel who truly deserves all the best out of life Cecelia, I want to see you feeling fantastic hun, everything will be OK Cecelia, make each day…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    I am just so fucking tired of this. when so many people give you pain you really start to believe that you deserve pain and look for ways to hurt yourself.

    • Please don’t think like that @invincible, you don’t deserve pain and sadness beautiful angel Cecelia, anyone who tries to make you feel upset, sad and horrible isn’t worth your time sweetie, remember you are such a fantastic person who deserves to be surrounded by hope, happiness, love and brightness hun, everything will be OK Cecelia, smile…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Has anyone contacted blah through emai lor twitter to let them know they are letting their website get screwed up!? sigh. if anyone sees this, lemme know . Ican’t even see anyone’s status updates if they have made any because spam happens every 10 seconds it seems. God, the admins at blah really screwed this up. Hop they are happy!I won’t give…[Read more]

    • It’s so frustrating and annoying @invincible, the spam is really ruining this beautiful community sweetie, I would try to contact the moderators/admin and see if anything can be done to stop it, I would put my name forward to be admin if that is what the wonderful BT community wanted because the spam can’t go on like this, thank you for always…[Read more]

    • I’ll try to contact them on twitter and facebook and tell them what is going on

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    was up til 3:30 am this morning crying in utter pain that my step family member mostly has caused me. why do I give them such power over me? God. I feel like shit today

    • Please don’t let horrible people have any power over you @invincible, your step family have absolutely no right treating you badly sweetie, I want to see you feeling loved, cared for and appreciated beautiful Cecelia, remember to hold your head up high and know you are so much stronger than those who seek to break you, you are such a fantastic,…[Read more]

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