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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Gigobyte posted an update Feeling utterly worthless… I never do anything right and im always hurting those closest to me… View

    Please don’t feel upset or down @tigerrajah, you are such a lovely, amazing and wonderful person who deserves all the happiness in the world, be kind to yourself and know you bring brightness, compassion and hope to those closest to you, so many people care about you, hold your head up high, smile and keep being the fantastic human-being that you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Gigobyte posted an update I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2.5 years now but thing seem to be going ana roolercoaster this last year. We have arguments frequently and itsbat the point now where while yes we both […] View

    I would be as open and honest with each other as you can @tigerrajah, work through any problems in your relationship and do your best to make things stronger as each day passes, I’m sure things will work out and get back on track, stay positive and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 12 months ago

    In reply to: Gigobyte posted an update I’ve come to realize that my home has become toxic.I can’t live here anymore and tomorrow I’m telling my parents who chose me for their family and raised me as there own that I can’t live […] View

    I would try to talk to your family and see if you can work things out @tigerrajah, if not, maybe moving out will benefit you and help you become more independent, try to focus on all the good things that will happen, I’m sure you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Gigobyte posted an update Probably the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I am choosing my girlfriend over my mum. She adopted me and raised me in a very strict no nonsense kind of way with little freedom to do […] View

    I would try to talk to your mother and your girlfriend @tigerrajah to see if you can come to some sort of agreement, hopefully things will work out in a good way for everyone involved, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: tiger_rajah posted an update I can’t help but feel useless. I either hurt my mother or hurt my girlfriend. I can please my girlfriend and hear my mother bitch about it later or I can please my mother and make my […] View

    Please don’t feel like that @tigerrajah, I’m sure you are a wonderful son and boyfriend, please think positively about yourself and be kind to yourself, focus on making others happy but do make yourself feel good as well, I want to see you feeling on top of the world, please don’t let negativity get you down, everything will be OK, you can do…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: tiger_rajah posted an update I can’t help but feel useless. I either hurt my mother or hurt my girlfriend. I can please my girlfriend and hear my mother bitch about it later or I can please my mother and make my […] View

    Pleasing others can be cool, but what’s good for you? How do you please yourself? Don’t lose track of your own needs, have you been crappy at self care lately? How can you improve on that? (@tigerrajah)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I hate that I miss you, when all you did was tear me apart. View

    @tigerrajah , @strideintomyoffice , and @oliver
    Thank you all for your concern and support. I was just over-thinking about someone really important to me, who’s no longer in my life. For the best, really. But missing the good memories we shared made for a rough time.
    Thanks again. :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: tiger_rajah posted an update I’m just soo tired and lost, feeling alone even when surrounded by close friends I feel like a tree ever stationary while life just passes me by. View

    Please don’t feel alone or lost @tigerrajah, you will do wonderful things in life, keep your head up, you can make things better for yourself, keep moving forward, you are such a strong and amazing person, try to stay as upbeat as you can and look positively towards your bright future, you are never alone, you are a survivor, if you need to talk…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: tiger_rajah posted an update Its gonna be another one of those sleepless nights with nothing to do but think View

    Keep your head up @tigerrajah, things will get better for you, keep fighting, you are such a strong, wonderful and amazing person, never give up, remember to think positively, you can make it through anything, you are a survivor, you will overcome, don’t lose hope, if you need to talk or need a friend, I’m always here, feel free to message me…[Read more]