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    Gigobyte posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    Probably the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I am choosing my girlfriend over my mum. She adopted me and raised me in a very strict no nonsense kind of way with little freedom to do what I want when I want but I still love her. However I feel I love my girlfriend more. I am tiered of seeing her hurt by how much time my mum takes up and I am tired of how much my mum complains about how much time I spend with my girlfriend. I have to let my mum know why I am doing what I am doing and I justbdont know how … I don’t want to ruin that relationship but I don’t want to hurt my girlfriend any more either… Wish me luck

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    • Gigobyte i’m sure your mum will understand why you’re doing what you’re doing. to be honest if i was in the same situation as you i don’t think i’d be able to tell my mum and i don’t think most people would so you’re doing a lot more than any one else would. If you ever need anyone to talk to @Gigobyte don’t be afraid to message me on here i’ll get back to you asap. hang in there

    • I would try to talk to your mother and your girlfriend @tigerrajah to see if you can come to some sort of agreement, hopefully things will work out in a good way for everyone involved, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • In the end, I think you made the right decision.
      Whether or not things work out with your girlfriend (not saying that I doubt they will) it’s time for your mother to give you some space and let you go a little. You have your own life, and in that life you’re going to meet many different people, and those people are going to need some of your attention. Your mother can’t have it all, no matter how much she wants it.
      I’m sure she’ll understand eventually. It’s probably just hard for her to let go in the time being, because she’s so used to you being all hers.
      So, good luck to you. :) Everything will be okay.