- Mood : Crappy
- Mood : Drained
just have to find yourself again mate. thats all.
Need to have an honest look at what you are contributing to the issues. And she does as well. You have to talk this out, and in the talking I think your way will become clear. But each focus on what you are contributing, not what the other is contributing. Conflict resolution starts when we own our own contribution. Good luck
I would be as open and honest with each other as you can @tigerrajah, work through any problems in your relationship and do your best to make things stronger as each day passes, I’m sure things will work out and get back on track, stay positive and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent (hugs)
Sorry you’re going through a rough point in your relationship. It’s clear that you love each other even though neither of you are altogether happy right now. People can burn out on one another after time. Everyone needs space and alone time, eventually. Maybe encourage her to do something fun, just for herself and you do the same. Whatever…[Read more]
- Mood : Afraid
I think you sould talk to them first. Sometimes people react when they’re about to lose something. Like that “don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone”. Maybe they can react and notice that you’re right.
If they don’t realise, I think is good for you to leave. Is obviously scary, but you have to prove yourself that you can. Is a sacrifice…[Read more]I would try to talk to your family and see if you can work things out @tigerrajah, if not, maybe moving out will benefit you and help you become more independent, try to focus on all the good things that will happen, I’m sure you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]
- Mood : Guilty
Gigobyte i’m sure your mum will understand why you’re doing what you’re doing. to be honest if i was in the same situation as you i don’t think i’d be able to tell my mum and i don’t think most people would so you’re doing a lot more than any one else would. If you ever need anyone to talk to @Gigobyte don’t be afraid to message me on here…[Read more]
I would try to talk to your mother and your girlfriend @tigerrajah to see if you can come to some sort of agreement, hopefully things will work out in a good way for everyone involved, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
In the end, I think you made the right decision.
Whether or not things work out with your girlfriend (not saying that I doubt they will) it’s time for your mother to give you some space and let you go a little. You have your own life, and in that life you’re going to meet many different people, and those people are going to need some of your…[Read more]
- Mood : Depressed
Pleasing others can be cool, but what’s good for you? How do you please yourself? Don’t lose track of your own needs, have you been crappy at self care lately? How can you improve on that? (@tigerrajah)
Please don’t feel like that @tigerrajah, I’m sure you are a wonderful son and boyfriend, please think positively about yourself and be kind to yourself, focus on making others happy but do make yourself feel good as well, I want to see you feeling on top of the world, please don’t let negativity get you down, everything will be OK, you can do…[Read more]
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Please don’t feel upset or down @tigerrajah, you are such a lovely, amazing and wonderful person who deserves all the happiness in the world, be kind to yourself and know you bring brightness, compassion and hope to those closest to you, so many people care about you, hold your head up high, smile and keep being the fantastic human-being that you…[Read more]
this happens to everyone people take it negatively as sign that they are doing something wrong. I see it as something that makes me human and appreciate everything that has gone right even more perhaps seeing it my way may help. making mistakes is what makes us humans and in these situations the best thing is you get to make amends and try again