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    Gigobyte posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    Feeling utterly worthless… I never do anything right and im always hurting those closest to me…

    Mood : Crappy
    • Please don’t feel upset or down @tigerrajah, you are such a lovely, amazing and wonderful person who deserves all the happiness in the world, be kind to yourself and know you bring brightness, compassion and hope to those closest to you, so many people care about you, hold your head up high, smile and keep being the fantastic human-being that you…[Read more]

    • this happens to everyone people take it negatively as sign that they are doing something wrong. I see it as something that makes me human and appreciate everything that has gone right even more perhaps seeing it my way may help. making mistakes is what makes us humans and in these situations the best thing is you get to make amends and try again

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    Gigobyte posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2.5 years now but thing seem to be going ana roolercoaster this last year. We have arguments frequently and itsbat the point now where while yes we both love each other most of our day to day life we don’t seem to like each other. Neither of us can imagine life without the other so we don’t want to break it…[Read more]

    Mood : Drained
    • just have to find yourself again mate. :) thats all.

    • Need to have an honest look at what you are contributing to the issues. And she does as well. You have to talk this out, and in the talking I think your way will become clear. But each focus on what you are contributing, not what the other is contributing. Conflict resolution starts when we own our own contribution. Good luck

    • I would be as open and honest with each other as you can @tigerrajah, work through any problems in your relationship and do your best to make things stronger as each day passes, I’m sure things will work out and get back on track, stay positive and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • Sorry you’re going through a rough point in your relationship. It’s clear that you love each other even though neither of you are altogether happy right now. People can burn out on one another after time. Everyone needs space and alone time, eventually. Maybe encourage her to do something fun, just for herself and you do the same. Whatever…[Read more]

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    Gigobyte posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    I’ve come to realize that my home has become toxic.I can’t live here anymore and tomorrow I’m telling my parents who chose me for their family and raised me as there own that I can’t live with them anymore.I will be leaving my adoptive family and everything I’ve grown up with behind and I’m scared… It may seem dumb for a 21year old to be…[Read more]

    Mood : Afraid
    • I think you sould talk to them first. Sometimes people react when they’re about to lose something. Like that “don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone”. Maybe they can react and notice that you’re right.
      If they don’t realise, I think is good for you to leave. Is obviously scary, but you have to prove yourself that you can. Is a sacrifice…[Read more]

    • I would try to talk to your family and see if you can work things out @tigerrajah, if not, maybe moving out will benefit you and help you become more independent, try to focus on all the good things that will happen, I’m sure you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Gigobyte posted an update 4 years ago

    Probably the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I am choosing my girlfriend over my mum. She adopted me and raised me in a very strict no nonsense kind of way with little freedom to do what I want when I want but I still love her. However I feel I love my girlfriend more. I am tiered of seeing her hurt by how much time my mum takes up and I am…[Read more]

    Mood : Guilty
    • Gigobyte i’m sure your mum will understand why you’re doing what you’re doing. to be honest if i was in the same situation as you i don’t think i’d be able to tell my mum and i don’t think most people would so you’re doing a lot more than any one else would. If you ever need anyone to talk to @Gigobyte don’t be afraid to message me on here…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 4 years ago

      I would try to talk to your mother and your girlfriend @tigerrajah to see if you can come to some sort of agreement, hopefully things will work out in a good way for everyone involved, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • In the end, I think you made the right decision.
      Whether or not things work out with your girlfriend (not saying that I doubt they will) it’s time for your mother to give you some space and let you go a little. You have your own life, and in that life you’re going to meet many different people, and those people are going to need some of your…[Read more]

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    Gigobyte posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I think I should take the advice of some users on here and take a break from Blah, but I’m torn, this community is one of the only good things in my life, I don’t have an offline life at all, […] View

    Keep fighting on oli. You have helped so many of us here on blah and that’s a good thing its nit a character flaw or naiivety it just means you are a good person. We love you man. We want to make sure you are good too. If you need to take a break from blah go fir it but just know if you need anything ail you have to do is let us know and we are…[Read more]

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    Gigobyte posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update Is it just me or… Is everything in Chinese? View

    Yup its all kanji fir me too

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    tiger_rajah posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    I can’t help but feel useless. I either hurt my mother or hurt my girlfriend. I can please my girlfriend and hear my mother bitch about it later or I can please my mother and make my girlfriend feel alone In the world. My vhoices seem to be, be a crappy son or be a crapoy boyfriend. And once again I feel useless either way Q~Q

    Mood : Depressed
    • Pleasing others can be cool, but what’s good for you? How do you please yourself? Don’t lose track of your own needs, have you been crappy at self care lately? How can you improve on that? (@tigerrajah)

    • Please don’t feel like that @tigerrajah, I’m sure you are a wonderful son and boyfriend, please think positively about yourself and be kind to yourself, focus on making others happy but do make yourself feel good as well, I want to see you feeling on top of the world, please don’t let negativity get you down, everything will be OK, you can do…[Read more]

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    tiger_rajah posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: beccaboo posted an update idk what to do anymore someone help me im going insane i cant control myself View

    Hey beccaboo, what’s going on? Maybe someone here can help.

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    tiger_rajah posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update I hate that I miss you, when all you did was tear me apart. View

    Sorry to hear your are feeling so poorly right now. I don’t know the details but you shoukdnt be upset at missing someone. T8me heals and things get better. I know its tiugh at first but if all they did. Was tear you apart then take this chance to meet someone new and replace your ssadness with ssomeone a little but happier. I wish you the best oof luck.

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