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    Thundross posted an update in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 1 year, 4 months ago

    I had sex with a friend Saturday. I really liked her but she has a bf… She told her bf it happened and than told me we shouldn’t do it again. (I thought we were going to start dating) So I felt used. She begged me to stay around her but I ultimately cut her off and told her she needs to figure out what she wants before we talk again… That was stressing me out but I could handle it emotionally I wasn’t all that hurt, she just made it hard to say good bye… My emotions were already raw from all this, but than i was informed that a good friend died… just not feeling well anymore…

    • I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend, do remember all the happy and good times you had with them @thundross, you did the right thing, hopefully this girl will work out her feelings and you will too, be as honest and open with your feelings to each other if you meet again, no matter what happens, you can still be friendly and respectful to each other, everything will work out for you, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That’s was a very brave decision @thundross. She should figure out first what kind of relationship wants with you and her boyfriend, so nobody gets hurt. On the other hand, I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to lose a beloved friend. Remember all the good times with them, and how much you loved them. Give yourself time to feel better. I hope you are having a good day so far @thundross, and if you need to chat, my inbox is open <3

    • no need to remember the times because that is exactly what’s going to hold you back from moving on… use this experience for what it taught you, learn from al actions as to what was right and obviously wrong and move on to better your life.