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    Kay posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    could really use someone to talk to.

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    Katherine posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    Did I do the wrong thing? – so a couple of months ago my ex texted me saying Happy Birthday to me and at first I didn’t know who it was until he told me. I decided to cave in and give him my social back, we added each other back on snap and followed each other on insta again. We talked a little more often but then he got a gf. So I was like…[Read more]

    • I would just forget about them @teamtennantgirl, they have absolutely no right to snoop on you Katherine, don’t let them have any power over you Katherine, stay focused on your happiness Katherine, you are a fantastic person who deserves to feel loved and appreciated, get rid of toxic people from your life Katherine and surround yourself with…[Read more]

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    Katherine posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    yo I remember making this account back when I was in middle school, and now I’m in college, time flies haha

    • Right? I can’t even recall when I created my account. Funny how things work out.

    • @teamtennantgirl

      Crazy how time flies. I made my account in May of 2014, so over five years ago. I’d needed desperate help over what now seems like something so little in the midst of everything else. But it got me here, and I’ve met wonderful people because of it. :)

      Hope you’re doing well!

    • It’s great to see how much you have grown and how far you have come @teamtennantgirl, remember to always be strong and keep being the beautiful, incredible and lovely person that you are Katherine, things will continue going awesomely for you, stay positive and always smile brightly, you can do it sweetie, your future will be so great and you…[Read more]

    • Right!! I just got back on and I’m a freshman in college. I made this when I was a freshman in high school. Shits wild.

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    kkyyne and Profile picture of stuckinthislabyrinthstuckinthislabyrinth are now friends 8 months, 3 weeks ago

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    Lels posted an update 9 months ago

    Heartbreak feels like someone is squeezing my heart with a metal hand. I can’t believe the amount of physical pain it can cause.

    Mood : Crushed
    • Oli replied 9 months ago

      I don’t want to see you feeling heartbroken @lelslessing, you are such a beautiful, fabulous and special person who truly deserves to feel loved, cared for and supported, I want to see you being respected and appreciated, try to stay positive Lels and focus on your wellbeing and happiness, remember to always take care of yourself, hold your head…[Read more]

    • Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

    • Thank you Dear Oli! Thanks so much for your support!

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    finnian posted an update 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    im sad, what else is new
    I can barely eat anymore
    I’ve already lost 10 pounds
    I can’t get on my medication because insurance, doctors, appointments, and work are all cluster fucked. Everything seems so impossible right now.
    I am alone. I am always alone.
    I need a friend. I need someone. I wish I wasn’t so alone. I don’t know what’s wrong with me,…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel sad @peiyopei, everything will be OK and things will work out for you Finnian, do eat, stay healthy and take care of yourself, I want to see you smiling and surrounding yourself with love, positivity and hope Finnian, I don’t want to ever see you feeling alone, you are amongst friends in this community Finnian, everyone on BT…[Read more]

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    Lels posted an update 10 months ago

    I often read something like “trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or “accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt another person” and that’s considered to be normal. People accept that pain is inevitable and join relationships despite the fear. However, if pain is…[Read more]

    • No one deserves to be in pain either by themselves or while in a relationship @lelslessing, we all truly deserve to feel positive, happy and wonderful so we can better ourselves and support each other every day, I want to see you feeling fantastic Lels and being the best person you can be, remember to smile brightly and know you are awesome,…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

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    Lels posted an update 10 months ago

    The more I learn about myself, the less I believe that I am capable of building an emotionally and physically intimate relationship with another person. I manage to maintain peace with myself, and even though I sometimes feel lonely, I accept that feeling as a part of the journey. I remind myself that it’s possible to feel lonely in a…[Read more]

    Mood : Numb
    • We all deserve strong, intimate and loving relationships with other human-beings @lelslessing, you do too Lels, don’t let loneliness break you Lels, do your best to stay upbeat and surround yourself with compassion and positivity, true happiness and love will happen to you Lels, one day you will meet your soulmate Lels, someone amazing is out…[Read more]

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    Lels posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    I often feel good when I am busy with tasks or projects that I love. But when the project is over and I come home I often feel extremely lonely. I think it’s the contrast between a busy time + being surrounded by people that makes the times right after that feel lonely. I do remind myself that I am consciously choosing not to pursue close…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel lonely @lelslessing, do stay busy with projects and things that keep you occupied Lels, but do surround yourself with compassionate people and things that bring a wonderful smile to your face, we all deserve wonderful relationships with another human-beings, you do too Lels, I want to see you happy and living a life that is…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much for your kindness and support Oli! Please message me too if you want to chat! I appreciate you so much!

    • @Oli thank you so much!!!

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    Lels posted an update 10 months, 3 weeks ago

    Today was challenging. I took a Mental Health First Aid training which I wanted to do, and I guess I learned a lot and in general it was a good training, but it triggered a lot of my own mental health needs. Listening about all of that for 7 hours was just too much for me today. I am reminding myself to take it one day at a time. I can probably…[Read more]

    Mood : Sad
    • It’s great that you took Mental Health training @lelslessing, do use your knowledge to help others and take care of yourself, I’m so sorry that the training made you feel upset and sad, I would try to relax and calm yourself as best you can sweetie, focus on your own happiness and making yourself feel positive and upbeat, everything will be OK…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much Oli! It’s so nice to hear your encouraging words! Thank you so much for being here and for the offer to message you to chat! Have a great day / week, and thank you so much for all your support!

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    Lels posted an update 11 months ago

    Blahtherapy is awesome and has helped me so many times. Idk what I would do without you guys! Thank you so much to everyone who is venting, listening, securing the work of the website, and to everyone who is a part of the community here. <3

    • I can’t figure out how to get to the venting to stranger

    • I think right now there is a temporary glitch in the chat, because I can’t seem to enter the chat as well. I recommend to try later :)

    • Glad to see that BT has helped you so much @lelslessing, we are all so blessed to have you here as a member, please know the BT community will always be for you and so will I, you are awesome Lels, always be the fantastic person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hi Oli, thank you so much as always for your kindness! (hugs back)

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    Lels posted an update 11 months ago

    I’m saying we all who have an extra $1 could donate it to blahtherapy to help them secure the work of the chat servers :D is there a donate button here? :)

    Mood : Hopeful
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    finnian posted an update 1 year ago

    i have been having very strong urges to self harm again. I want to so badly. I haven’t felt this bad in a long time. I feel so empty. Nothing matters to me anymore right now. I need to do something to distract myself but nothing is working. I really just want to be held but I don’t have anybody ever I’m so alone I hate it hate it hate it hate it
    I…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Please don’t harm yourself @peiyopei, you are such a fantastic, awesome and special person who deserves to feel positive and happy, do surround yourself with things that bring a smile to your face Finnian, distract yourself with activities that make you upbeat and keep you busy, please don’t feel lonely, everyone deserves compassionate friends…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 1 year ago

    really truly my life is going back to shit and why wouldn’t it
    I had to leave my clinic job, I miss them all so fucking much and I can’t return because I really fucked myself. I didn’t have a job for almost two months which sent me down this spiral of feeling totally worthless.
    My boyfriend is burning himself , I can’t fuxking stand that shit. It…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Please don’t let life’s struggles get you down @peiyopei, things will work out for you Finnian and everything will be OK, I’m sure you will find another job or you may get your clinic job back, try to stay positive and surround yourself with happiness, do look after yourself mentally, emotionally and physically Finnian, take care of yourself…[Read more]

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