• Profile picture of TheMoonEnvoy
    Passing Stranger
    QA Reputation

    TheMoonEnvoy posted an update 8 years, 11 months ago

    Why do people come on here if they aren’t willing to heed advice and why do listeners come on here to call venters losers, that’s not what this site is about guys!

    Mood : Ashamed
    • I’ve never had that happen but if someone is being abusive then just click the report flag in the conversation. Then again, I don’t really vent on here.

    • Its because there are two types of venter’s and two types of listeners. Some listeners are too arrogant who think highly of themselves and come here to make them self feel better by listening to other peoples mistakes and shit and then make fun of them for their mistakes and act as if they never made any mistakes themselves. They don’t have the patience to actually understand how the venter is feeling and stuff because they think the venter’s worries and problems are unnecessary…etc

      The second type of listener is someone who actually cares about this person and tries to relate to how this person is feeling and what this person is going through and gives an honest advice to help him/her because this person knows that the world doesn’t revolve around them and that there are people who are going through some difficult obstacles in their life that they need to overcome, so try their best to help them as much as they can.

      Now the venter’s. The first type of venter’s are the unhappy ignorant help seekers. They go vent about the obstacles that they are going through and pity themselves and tell people about their problems just to hear what they want to hear and want others to pity them also. For example, someone asks for help and advice, the other person tries to be understanding and gives you advice so you can change your life for the better. However the venter listens to advice, but chooses not to actually apply it to their life. They choose to be ignorant and not try to actually do anything to change their situations. Now these kind of people are those whose life is just a cycle of getting hurt but not actually overcoming anything because they don’t try.. They choose to listen to bad people. You cant make these kind of people happy because they choose to be unhappy.

      Second type of venter are those who really does want help and advice and apply it in their life because tey want to be happy. They don’t want to stay in their situations forever and they know that inorder for things to change they have to change and actually do something about it. Not just sit there and pity themselves and not do anything about it because they know they wont go nowhere doing nothing.

      Also third listeners and venter’s : trolls/hypocrites

    • This site is supposed to be a place where people help and support each other @themoonenvoy, do your best to ignore those on the chat who are cruel, remember there are many more kind-hearted and lovely people on here who are willing to always be there, hope you are OK, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That’s not the point Michael