don’t organize, just relax, and let him talk and say his thing, the professor should let you talk when he’s done and he is not allowed to disturb while you’re telling your thing. also, if he does, and he won’t let you talk, it means that the prof is simply a douchebag. and don’t choke up, i know how it feels like, that’s when you’ve organized what you’re gonna say, but i’m done doing that, i just let it come, and i’ll see what i say. what you will say then comes from the true you, from how you feel from what the prof says. and it’s okay to have a bad relationship with a prof sometimes, pressure in the air, feeling intimidated, feeling negativity. personally i like to have some pressure with people sometimes, it gives me courage to stand up for myself. don’t worry you’ll do fine, but really, don’t organize your words, or you’ll probably be like in the middle in the sentence and forget what you were gonna say.
I would try to talk to your professor and see if you can work out a plan to keep yourself on track @suiei, just be honest with him and tell him how things are, I’m sure you will be OK, just do your best, I want to see you happy and achieving all your dreams, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
I talked to my prof last week and pretty much did what you said. I just told him what I honestly thought, in a calm manner, and he seemed to understand, but told me that I should ask for help if I run into problems like that in the future. I think we settled the issue, so I’m glad. I still hate talking to most of my professors for some reason, but I’ll try to get over it. Thanks for your advice.
Thanks Oli, I talked to him and we settled the issue.