Julia posted an update 6 years, 4 months ago
I’m a blunt, honest listener. I’m not going to listen to you whine about your problems and not want to do anything to fix them. I’m going to tell you to get off your lazy butt and do something about them if you want anything to change or improve. It doesn’t mean that I don’t care about your problems or don’t think they’re significant, it means that I think you have the potential to fix them and make a better life for yourself.
I couldn’t have said it better myself. Don’t sugar coat anything. You come to me for advice, yes I will listen and be supportive, but I will tell you like it is…like it or don’t.