and i can’t start to do credit because apparently you hagve to have a histor yof it but I never have??? frustrating. real world sucks. but i love it because i can be INDEPENDENT. all i crave.

Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

thank you so much Oli, I need to just remember to and apply budgeting to my life, especially since I have to look after myself first, my cat, and now my life with my new love who i think is the one. it’s big responsibilites but i want it more than anything.

It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

Look up secure credit cards, you can start an account with a deposit and build your credit that way even with zero history. hope that helps!

Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well…[Read more]

That’s the worst part about dealing with difficult situations… Feeling alone in them. I’m sorry you are going throught that Cecelia. If I can be of any help, or if you need to talk, remember that I’m here for you ♥ @invincible

Please don’t feel alone @invincible, remember you are such a wonderful, awesome and lovely person Cecelia who deserves to be in a place where you feel safe, positive and happy sweetie, don’t let the dark and difficult moments break you down Cecelia, look forward as your future will be so bright and filled with optimism, I’m sure you will get to…[Read more]

What’s on your mind? @invincible, remember you are such a beautiful, special and awesome person who deserves all the happiness and positivity that life has to offer wonderful angel Cecelia, remember to stay focused on making yourself feel upbeat and surround yourself with brightness sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

That one’s quite a difficult feeling to manage. Also, the events of these past two-three years do not really help to feel awake. I hope you are doing better now @invincible. Remember to take one day at a time, and to take care of yourself. If you need to chat, you can DM me whenever <3

Awww, that’s so sweet @invincible, keep listening to music that makes you feel happy, loved and brings a smile to your face beautiful angel Cecelia, glad to see you are doing well sweetie, remember you are truly awesome, incredible and fantastic, stay upbeat Cecelia, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

It’s nice to catch up on old hobbies. It can feel very nostalgic!

Glad to see that things are going well for you @invincible, remember to stay positive and I know you’ll continue to thrive in all parts of your life beautiful angel Cecelia, keep being upbeat sweetie and always smile confidently and brightly, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

It’s great to see you achieving so much and feeling upbeat, Cecelia. Keep growing that optimism and working on the things that make you happy. You’ve earned it!

You truly do deserve a loving, fulfilling and positive relationship with someone special @invincible, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and please know that any relationship you are in will continue going from strength to strength, be with someone who loves you and who will stick by you through anything, don’t focus on those who…[Read more]

It’s absolutely amazing to read this! I’m so happy for you Cecelia <3. You deserve to be loved and to be in a healthy relationship with a partner that makes you feel loved and secure, and that lets you keep growing and be your true self. I wish the best for you, you really deserve it @invincible

They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return…[Read more]

Unfortunately, I know that feeling you describe Cecelia. Sometimes we try our best to be there for the ones we love, even when they do not reciprocate. If that’s the case, you should set boundaries, even if it hurts. Otherwise, they’ll keep benefiting from your kindness without worrying about you neither giving anything back. Something similar…[Read more]

That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]

*sigh* I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for some people to be polite towards their coworkers. You are spending hours and hours in the same place with them, the bare minimum shall be to have some mutual respect and manners. I’m sorry you have to deal with that Cecelia. If you need to talk, my DMs are always open <3 @invincible

Exactly as you said @invincible. Love is about accepting the person as a whole, with all their bad and all their good. Some people should remember that.