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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update What is with all the spam on this site now? View

    Indeed @somelameperson, it is so frustrating and annoying, hopefully the moderators will delete the spam so this community can always be a place of kindness and love, do have a fantastic day and keep smiling, you can do it, always be the awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I always seem to just come on here and write whatever I seem to be feeling at the time. I have a hard time doing that in a physical journal or at any other website. I guess I just […] View

    This community will always be a supportive, compassionate and loving place where you can come and pour your heart out @somelameperson, everyone on BT cares about you and we all want the best for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I think I want to be a girl and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m going to talk to a therapist about it but I’ve been thinking about it a lot recently and have started […] View

    You will find who you truly are @somelameperson, no matter what gender you are, remember you are a beautiful, special and wonderful unique individual who deserves all the happiness in the world, remember to always smile and keep going forward with optimism, do talk to a counsellor and therapist to get all your thoughts, feelings and emotions out,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I can feel it slowly ending and there’s absolutely nothing I can do. Why does this keep happening to me? View

    Please don’t let sadness and pain get you down @somelameperson, what’s on your mind?, I want to see you truly happy in life, surround yourself with things that bring positivity, hope and brightness into your life, remember you are such a fantastic person who deserves all the best, stay upbeat and keep going forward, you can do it, believe in…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I cant believe I log back on to see that I can still relate to my previous post about my relationship. I’m not feeling great. I feel stuck. I don’t think I can fix this but I also […] View

    I’ve read some of your previous posts. According to how you described it, it looks like you are in a relationship where things are not balanced, and you don’t have a voice in. Are you happy with your partner? Do you feel comfortable with them? Do the both of you respect and care for each other? Do the both of you have the will to fix what’s not…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I cant believe I log back on to see that I can still relate to my previous post about my relationship. I’m not feeling great. I feel stuck. I don’t think I can fix this but I also […] View

    Please don’t feel sad @somelameperson, you are such a fantastic person who truly deserves happiness in life and a relationship where you feel supported, loved and taken care of by your partner, things will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going, I want to see you shine and making each day as wonderful as you can, smile, believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to […] View

    @somelameperson It doesn’t sound good, I hope you get to a place where you don’t have to stay because you think there’s nothing better for you out there, and from there you can look back at how this was bad for you, and you would be better off.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to […] View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves a relationship where you feel supported, loved and cared for @somelameperson, I want to see you being treated with respect and kindness by your partner, try to talk to her about things and see what happens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update Feeling pretty worthless to be honest. Hoping I can qualify for SSI since I can’t ever seem to hold a job for more than a few months. View

    Please don’t feel down or upset @somelameperson, I would try to find a lawyer or apply for disability and see what happens, try your best to find a job that you enjoy and makes you happy, something wonderful will come your way, please know your future will be so bright and amazing, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update My mental health is increasingly getting worse. I think about suicide constantly and very recently had to go to the hospital because of it. I don’t see myself living past 30. View

    @somelameperson what methods do you use to cope with these thoughts? Do you frequently have appointments to get help? If not, do you go out frequently to at least get some air? Do you exercise? Eat healthy? Sorry for all these questions, but these are some crucial things that really help your mental health. Might look super trivial but your body…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update My mental health is increasingly getting worse. I think about suicide constantly and very recently had to go to the hospital because of it. I don’t see myself living past 30. View

    Please don’t harm yourself or let dark thoughts get you down @somelameperson, you are such a wonderful, special and fantastic person who will win all your battles, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally, physically and mentally, everything will be OK, you will overcome and so many more brighter days will be ahead, believe in…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update hahaha money problems View

    Don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help @somelameperson, look for organisations in your area that can help you with budgeting, hopefully you will be able to sort your money issues so you can support yourself in a good way, keep going and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I’m stressing out about college so much right now. If I don’t have enough financial aid then I’ll have to drop out and give up. If that happens I won’t be too surprised I suppose, […] View

    Please don’t feel down about yourself @somelameperson, your future will be filled with so many bright moments and amazing opportunities, hopefully you will be able to financially support yourself for college, look around for options and see what comes up, you will do great and be successful, stay upbeat and never give up, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update So, I just realized I’ve been having panic attacks daily. I didn’t know thats what they were at first, but now I’m certain of it. It pisses me off. There is no reason whatsoever to […] View

    Take deep breathes and relax @somelameperson, find ways to calm yourself so you feel positive and at ease, look after yourself and keep going forward with happiness as best you can, you will be OK because you are full of strength and brightness, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I don’t know what to do with my life, for a while now I’ve been feeling like I might be transgender. I don’t know if I have it in me to commit to the change, plus I probably […] View

    Be kind to yourself and proud of who you are @somelameperson, I’m sure you will work out your thoughts and feelings regarding your sexuality, remember you are a wonderful human-being inside and out, smile and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update Well, I’m going through another pregnancy scare again. I haven’t had one of these for years. This almost makes me want to stop having sex completely or just get a vasectomy. I hate […] View

    I would try to talk to a doctor and see if they can help you through this @somelameperson, talk to your partner as well about what you want out of the relationship, hopefully everything will be OK and things will work out in a way that benefits you, I’m sure your job will continue going well, stay fantastic and keep going, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I can’t stand the thought of working at the same job for years, just wasting my life away for some stupid company. Is this really what life just is? It makes me want to just blow my […] View

    Try to find a new job or career @somelameperson, look for something that excites and interests you, I agree with @marikofujimoto too, find new hobbies or things to do that will keep you motivated and upbeat, I’m sure the right opportunity will come your way, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I can’t stand the thought of working at the same job for years, just wasting my life away for some stupid company. Is this really what life just is? It makes me want to just blow my […] View

    @somelameperson having a stable job is really good actually. But if you’re having trouble try to make your life exciting with the new stuff. When you’re not working try to go out with friends, go to coffee shops, new hobbies, etc. And within the company have you tried asking to try a different part? Like a different section? that way you could…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I have no idea what to do with my life right now. View

    I’m sure you will do amazing things @somelameperson, hold your head up high and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, you are a wonderful person who will make all your dreams come true, everything will work out and things will be OK, don’t let anything stand in your way, go forward and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: SomeLamePerson posted an update I can’t seem to do anything right. I might’ve just lost yet another job. Why can’t I keep a job? I always lose motivation and I just can’t get out of bed anymore. I’ve called in […] View

    @somelameperson from experience I can say for you to not rely on motivation. motivation is only in the moment, what you need is to discipline yourself. Make a list of good things that your job gives you for example (like money that you need). You can’t use lack of motivation as an excuse :/ this life isn’t for that. Besides I know you can do it!…[Read more]

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