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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 5 years ago

    I cant believe I log back on to see that I can still relate to my previous post about my relationship. I’m not feeling great. I feel stuck. I don’t think I can fix this but I also don’t want to give up. Yet at the same time I don’t think I feel anything anymore. I feel so fucking bad about it but I don’t know what I’m feeling. I just wish that things could’ve stayed decent but one thing led to another and here I am now in this seemingly almost irreparable relationship. I don’t know where I am in my life and I wish I could just quit altogether. I hate that nothing ever goes right. I hate who I am. I am completely worthless as a human being. 9 months and still feeling the same.. ugh.

    Mood : Melancholy
    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      Please don’t feel sad @somelameperson, you are such a fantastic person who truly deserves happiness in life and a relationship where you feel supported, loved and taken care of by your partner, things will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going, I want to see you shine and making each day as wonderful as you can, smile, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I’ve read some of your previous posts. According to how you described it, it looks like you are in a relationship where things are not balanced, and you don’t have a voice in. Are you happy with your partner? Do you feel comfortable with them? Do the both of you respect and care for each other? Do the both of you have the will to fix what’s not going good in the relationship?I know these are a lot of questions, and they might be needed to know in which point of the relationship are the both of you. @somelameperson you deserve to be with people that makes you happy, respects you, and loves you. It’s very hard to find yourself at a point where you don’t know anymore how to keep going, what do you want in life, or what will become of you. It’s a dark, deep, and terrifying hole. So please, never doubt about asking someone you love and trust for help and advice. They won’t reject you. And remember that we are here to listen, and help as much as we can too. We care about you. If there anything I can do, my inbox is open. Stay strong <3