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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    getting pretty fed up with situations that keep coming up in my relationship. I dont even know if this is all worth it but I’m lucky she even likes me so I’ll just listen to whatever she says. She has all the control in the relationship because she knows I’ll never break up with her but she probably has no problem breaking up with me. I never have a problem with anything but she seems to find countless things that bother her about me. I feel like the worst person ever. I’m never the one to start an argument. I can’t handle arguments. Last time we argued I broke down and cried like the weakling that I am. I’ll just have to tough it out I guess. I’m used to filtering myself just to please others anyways.

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    • You are a wonderful person who deserves a relationship where you feel supported, loved and cared for @somelameperson, I want to see you being treated with respect and kindness by your partner, try to talk to her about things and see what happens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @somelameperson It doesn’t sound good, I hope you get to a place where you don’t have to stay because you think there’s nothing better for you out there, and from there you can look back at how this was bad for you, and you would be better off.

    • What makes you think that she is lucky to have you? I’m sorry to say but a relationship where one person has all the control is not a healthy. It’s clear that you really love the person but relationships are a two-way street. I think you both need to have a conversation to address some of these underlying issues. Also, please don’t belittle yourself, even in the short paragraph you wrote, it’s clear that you’re kind, caring, and supportive. Drop me a message if you want to talk in more detail. Alex.