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    SomeLamePerson posted an update 6 years, 5 months ago

    I don’t know what to do with my life, for a while now I’ve been feeling like I might be transgender. I don’t know if I have it in me to commit to the change, plus I probably wouldn’t even be able to afford it. I’ve come out to my dad before but all he said about it is that it would be expensive and he’s right. I also got the feeling that he felt weird about it. I haven’t told many people and I don’t know if I should. I’m also pretty sure I’m bi. I’m just not sure. I’ve been feeling this way for years but I always just ignored it. Any advice?

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    • hey i dont know if your still around but ill inbox you some advice.. something like this is better discussed in private and nt on a public forum where everyone can see. unless you want me to. thats up to you. ill await your reply or your message.

    • @SetiDrow I don’t mind if it’s on here

    • Well ignoring your feelings and not confronting them head on is not a good thing, nor is it healthy. It is quite normal to be curious about the other sex and bi, im bi-curious myself and have been questioning my own sexuality for a long time now. So i can relate to the feeling of discontent and fear that it brings you… but you should know you are not alone. yes, getting an operation is expensive and its also irreversible you cannot unchange it. so you must be very certain its something that you WANT…. and i type this from my own heart looking inide to give you some advice and a reply taht you are seeking. I hope this helps you find what you seek, i cannot provide answers for you as you know yourself best. but i can provide guidance. I hope this helps if you have questions just ask

    • Thank you for the reassurance, I really appreciate it. I think I do want to do it, but I’m just worried what the people in my life would think about that.

    • Be kind to yourself and proud of who you are @somelameperson, I’m sure you will work out your thoughts and feelings regarding your sexuality, remember you are a wonderful human-being inside and out, smile and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • just know we are here for you :) — im glad that i was able to help in some way.