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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 3 months ago

    i have to endure stuff i feel uncomfortable with or else i’m not understanding enough; it’s like i have to change my entire being.

    • Please don’t let bad things get you down @smokygull, try to focus on the things that make you happy and that make you feel good, don’t change yourself for anybody or anything, keep being the amazing individual that you are Larissa, you deserve all the best in life, keep smiling and hold your head up high, hopefully everything will work out hun,…[Read more]

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i asked her to do one fucking thing for me; just one damn fucking thing, and she didn’t even do that. i’m so fucking angry and i feel so disappointed. View

    thank you for your advice; i’ll try to talk to her at some place where it’s just us and where she can’t get distracted by anything else, like you said – and i’ll try to get her to talk to me about this stuff. i hope that it’ll work as well, but maybe if this doesn’t work as well i’ll be able to think about my future in this.
    i’m a quite…[Read more]

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i asked her to do one fucking thing for me; just one damn fucking thing, and she didn’t even do that. i’m so fucking angry and i feel so disappointed. View

    a lot of people tell me to break up.. but i’m so filled with love for her i can’t. a reason besides love is that i feel like i can’t just leave her alone, she need me and she needs help. i can’t just leave her during such a shitty time. we’ve been best friends for such a long time, and a couple since quite some time as well, i just wouldn’t…[Read more]

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i asked her to do one fucking thing for me; just one damn fucking thing, and she didn’t even do that. i’m so fucking angry and i feel so disappointed. View

    i try to talk to her about this stuff a lot, but she doesn’t want to hear it; even if there’s nothing to distract herself with she just starts ignoring me or she gets angry; most of the time it ends with an empty ‘i’m sorry’ because nothing ever changes.

    ah, she has borderline, so she gets angry really fast and often without a reason. she…[Read more]

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i asked her to do one fucking thing for me; just one damn fucking thing, and she didn’t even do that. i’m so fucking angry and i feel so disappointed. View

    i don’t see myself at fault (this time). i did a lot of stuff today to help her and asked for one thing in return and she just ignored it. she always does that.

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 4 months ago

    i asked her to do one fucking thing for me; just one damn fucking thing, and she didn’t even do that. i’m so fucking angry and i feel so disappointed.

    • Is she the one at fault, or is it you?

    • i don’t see myself at fault (this time). i did a lot of stuff today to help her and asked for one thing in return and she just ignored it. she always does that.

    • Have you tried confronting her without anything that can be used as a excuse? (For example, in the bathroom) even if is sounds a bit weird.
      Or a place without any distraction, if her cellphone rings take it away and turn it off or something.
      I’ve noticed (while reading a bit on your profile wall) if she’s not doing her part to make it work,…[Read more]

    • i try to talk to her about this stuff a lot, but she doesn’t want to hear it; even if there’s nothing to distract herself with she just starts ignoring me or she gets angry; most of the time it ends with an empty ‘i’m sorry’ because nothing ever changes.

      ah, she has borderline, so she gets angry really fast and often without a reason. she…[Read more]

    • Is there a reason why you’re still suffering because of her? I mean, apart from loving her. Sometimes you need to know when to let go, if you can’t help it, if it doesn’t work anymore (or if it never worked since the beginning) then you should stop being with her.
      Love and hate shouldn’t be mixed together, also, if this is a problem without…[Read more]

    • She has no right to be horrible to you @smokygull, I would tell her that you want her to be a bit more helpful and considerate at times Larissa, she really should help you and not let you down, try to tell her how you truly feel, hope things go well, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open,…[Read more]

    • a lot of people tell me to break up.. but i’m so filled with love for her i can’t. a reason besides love is that i feel like i can’t just leave her alone, she need me and she needs help. i can’t just leave her during such a shitty time. we’ve been best friends for such a long time, and a couple since quite some time as well, i just wouldn’t…[Read more]

    • well, as I said, you may try force yourself on her (kiss her, hug her, and such). Even if she hates or get angry, force her to receive your love. It may make it better, it may make it worse. If you haven’t tried this then maybe you can (I did something like this before, and it worked since we were alone, no external pressure nor eyes, just…[Read more]

    • thank you for your advice; i’ll try to talk to her at some place where it’s just us and where she can’t get distracted by anything else, like you said – and i’ll try to get her to talk to me about this stuff. i hope that it’ll work as well, but maybe if this doesn’t work as well i’ll be able to think about my future in this.
      i’m a quite…[Read more]

    • Hope it goes well for you, and that your relationship with her get a future rather than a regretful past.

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update lately there’s no day without us fighting or at least doing something similar to fighting. i just want a day without an angry look or an annoyed sigh or being ignored; i just want a day […] View

    sadly, talking isn’t always a solution that helps; sometimes you just can’t get things right through talking. but thank you for your kind words, oli!

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 4 months ago

    lately there’s no day without us fighting or at least doing something similar to fighting. i just want a day without an angry look or an annoyed sigh or being ignored; i just want a day without fighting.

    • I would try to tell this person that you don’t want to be fighting with them @smokygull, tell them that you want things to be good between the two of you and that you would like things to be polite and nice when you are with each other, be honest and speak from the heart, I hope things go well Larissa, I’m always here if you need to talk,…[Read more]

    • sadly, talking isn’t always a solution that helps; sometimes you just can’t get things right through talking. but thank you for your kind words, oli!

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 5 months ago

    isn’t it the best feeling when the person you love the most looks at you with this angry and fuming glance all the time, no matter what?

    • I would try to talk to the person you care about @smokygull, hopefully you can work things out with them and get your relationship back on track Larissa, everyone deserves to have a strong bond with someone, you do too, I hope things work out for you Larissa, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 5 months ago

    she just keeps disappointing me and it seems like she doesn’t even care about it, it makes me so sad.

    • I would try to talk to her @smokygull, tell her how you are truly feeling Larissa, be honest and speak from the heart, you deserve a strong and loving relationship that is built on trust, everyone does, I hope that things work out for you, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open,…[Read more]

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i want to switch lives; i want a different life, i just don’t want this anymore. View

    i’m just so unhappy, i feel like depression is taking everything away from me and i already try so hard to get better, to save my life but it’s still the same no matter what i do..

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 6 months ago

    i want to switch lives; i want a different life, i just don’t want this anymore.

    • Why so??

    • i’m just so unhappy, i feel like depression is taking everything away from me and i already try so hard to get better, to save my life but it’s still the same no matter what i do..

    • I’m sure you will have an awesome life filled with so much love and happiness @smokygull, don’t let anything get you down Larissa, great things will happen to you, be positive and keep smiling, you deserve all the best, things will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going, so many more brighter and better days are ahead for you, you can do…[Read more]

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 6 months ago

    depression ruined my life; depression ruined me.

    • Please don’t let depression get you down @smokygull, keep fighting and never give up, you can and will make it through this, you are such a wonderful and special person who will make it through the darkness to brighter and better days ahead, things will be OK and great things will happen to you, you are a survivor and warrior, don’t let anything…[Read more]

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 6 months ago

    my girlfriend tried to make up for the way she treated me yesterday (and lately in general); i honestly haven’t felt that loved by her for a while.

    Mood : Thankful
    • Glad things are going well @smokygull, I’m sure things will continue to go amazingly for you Larissa, be positive and keep smiling, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i just feel so lonely, it’s eating me alive. all my girlfriend does is sleeping. View

    thank you as well for your kind words ( : it’s nice to hear from time to time that i’m not alone!

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    larissa posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: larissa posted an update i just feel so lonely, it’s eating me alive. all my girlfriend does is sleeping. View

    it’s a bit more complicated like that, but thank you so much for your kind words! i’ll try to do myself something good ( :

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    larissa posted an update 7 years, 6 months ago

    i just feel so lonely, it’s eating me alive. all my girlfriend does is sleeping.

    Mood : Lonely
    • it’s a bit more complicated like that, but thank you so much for your kind words! i’ll try to do myself something good ( :

    • Please don’t feel lonely or alone @smokygull, I’m sure you will meet compassionate people in life who will stick by you and love you for who you are Larissa, you are amongst friends in the community hun, I’m always here if you ever need a friend or if you ever need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

    • thank you as well for your kind words ( : it’s nice to hear from time to time that i’m not alone!

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