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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour
    I do have a moderate amount of responsibilities that keep me fairly busy for the most part considering I’m working and also a student, but more so I think the issue is that I haven’t taken the time to do anything. I would mostly say this is because I don’t know what to do, go in a room and sit and think for hours on end? It never…[Read more]
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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour
    1) When did I realize? Umm perhaps in the beginning-ish of highschool when I started getting really theological and thinking about my reality and my life rather than how kids work where they don’t really then just kinda work with what they have and have fun.

    2) how did I figure out I wouldn’t be successful/what is my definition?…[Read more]
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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour well I did mention two aspects of it but I try to elaborate a little more, things like feeling worthless, like everything is pointless, like everything I’ve done is a mistake, like nothing is worth living for, like I’m insignificant or irrelevant, like I’ll never be successful, unmotivated, numb, easily discouraged, that’s all…[Read more]
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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour All of this is very useful and all and I’ll likely try to apply it in other aspects of my life, but it sort of misses the mark. I understand though that I can be difficult given like you said I haven’t mentioned a specific situation, but I suppose I don’t have one specific situation in mind. I suppose I should ask given what you…[Read more]
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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour I see what you’re saying. The issue that I seem to run into however is that I don’t often need to support of others, like I said in my other message in most situations myself is enough. But the issue is that sometimes I reach a state that’s intense enough that I’m not enough, that anything encouraging I say doesn’t feel real, like…[Read more]
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    Zhialus posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Zhialus posted an update Anyone have any good coping mechanisms for when the one significant person in your life leaves you without word or reason? There was a point in my life where I was complacent and even […] View

    @sigmasuccour Not sure if you’re still around but I appreciate this message, more now upon my return than I had at the time, I had been clouded by my attachment and I took some of the things you said somewhat insultingly towards my feelings, but now, being slightly more mature and seeing things in a different light I find myself appreciating the…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Is love even real ? Lately seems so abstract… I can’t come to peace with my own mind. View

    @sigmasuccour and @huggable-cactus guys calm down please, I didn’t want my post to make people upset.
    And @sigmasuccour what I meant with this post was love not in a family way , more in a intimite way between a girl and a boy for example if this makes sense. I said “abstract” meaning that to me looks so distant and not real, looks like people…[Read more]
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update What are some ways to be happy? I’m always getting the heavy feeling weighing down on me sorta like trying to carry a boulder everyday. I feel smaller, and smaller. I need motivation within […] View

    @sigmasuccour
    I find that nowadays I’ve been extremely weighed down and am fueled with intense rage at myself. Still undecided in picking a major. I hate that fact that I’m indecisive. I don’t know what good things I even possess about myself. All I am is full of hatred towards myself, which turns me to hate myself even more. It’s hard for me…[Read more]
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update I have this gut feeling that I will be alone …by myself for the rest of my life. I don’t have any close friends at all. Let alone, anyone that would be my boyfriend. I know life isn’t perfect […] View

    @sigmasuccour
    True, I’m not happy being alone. I always feel this need to want someone to be with me to share my thoughts with. For a long time growing up, I moved around a lot, had to get used to new people and places. It got me so mad and utterly in tears due to the fact that I couldn’t fully connect with someone. It was always “hi and…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: rinseandrep posted an update Stop saying it’s boys’ talk, groping people while being confident that they will just take it because you are in a position of power/fame is not boys’ talk, you are a rapist if you say […] View

    @sigmasuccour maybe I’m quite stupid but did you just “we all have to treat each other, Including President-Elect Donald Trump, Miss Clinton, all the rapists, sexual harassers and basically everyone, with respect, love and kindness in words and action.” ? Did you said we have to respect all rapists and sexual harassers equally as some…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: rinseandrep posted an update Stop saying it’s boys’ talk, groping people while being confident that they will just take it because you are in a position of power/fame is not boys’ talk, you are a rapist if you say […] View

    The world needs love @sigmasuccour, I wish we could remove all the bad things from the world and replace it with compassion, empathy and hope, I just want the best for people, I honestly do, I’m going to remove myself from this discussion because I don’t want to upset anyone or start an argument, I’m sorry, but I’ll give you a smile and hug :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Well after venting to someone special here and sharing some stuff (even though no one really cares), I’m going to (try to) sleep. Goodnight everyone. View

    @sigmasuccour Caring: ” state of mind in which one is troubled; worry, anxiety, or concern” . So basically someone who gives a shit/ is worried about me (in this case at least). This is my concept.
    And people shouldn’t go “practising” it. There’s people who care, others who don’t. Would be extremly hypocrit to “practise it” , would be…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Prettyangel197 posted an update My Dad just told me that I create problems for everyone and expect everybody to fix them View

    @sigmasuccour according to your profile you are 20 years old. So probably not a father. So I’ll start with some questions:
    1) why did you authomatically decided that this girl is the bad guy and her father isn’t? You don’t know this person or her father. Period.
    2) Why judge her for venting? If she wants to vent and think how to solve her…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I need to talk. I have no idea what to do. View

    @sigmasuccour thank you so much, I truly need some help
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Out of curiosity, is Halloween celebrated in the country you live in? In mine isn’t, so I was curious about you guys. View

    @sigmasuccour happy to know I’m not the only one haha
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    Flameaura posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update My friends have richer families, yet they’re not as willing as me to spend much money on a day out. I don’t understand why? Am I asking them for an arm and a leg? It’s only for ONE day […] View

    @sigmasuccour A little too long, but it’s fine! I especially like the last line. Thank you sooooo much for the help!
    Anyway, while you were away, I actually managed to find another (old) friend to tag along! I’m so glad that she understands my sentiments. I’m so excited to meet her. Hope we reach the awesome-tacular level of friendship. :D
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    Flameaura posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update My friends have richer families, yet they’re not as willing as me to spend much money on a day out. I don’t understand why? Am I asking them for an arm and a leg? It’s only for ONE day […] View

    @sigmasuccour Yeah I talk to them through WhatsApp. Um… How is it expensive? Having fun is all that matters, right? There’s no harm since it’s only for a day. You may regret not tagging along. :p
    I think I’ve almost reached that level of awesomeness. They’re usually the ones who initiate a hangout. They try their very best to remember each…[Read more]
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    Flameaura posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update My friends have richer families, yet they’re not as willing as me to spend much money on a day out. I don’t understand why? Am I asking them for an arm and a leg? It’s only for ONE day […] View

    @sigmasuccour Ummm that’s smart. Hey why don’t you engineer the sentence for me? I can’t English anymore. (if you know what I mean) >.>
    Don’t understand the question.
    Yes, in a way? The fact that they’re willing to spend, even if they aren’t wealthy, really means something. I don’t know if I’m answering correctly.
    Pretty much that’s…[Read more]
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    Flameaura posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update My friends have richer families, yet they’re not as willing as me to spend much money on a day out. I don’t understand why? Am I asking them for an arm and a leg? It’s only for ONE day […] View

    @sigmasuccour I don’t want them to know I’m upset or sound demanding. I feel that they value money more than friendship.
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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update thoughts/rant: why is it those under stressful situations/environments/mentality that vocalise these issues are always encouraged to have this idealistic ”outlook” on life as if it will […] View

    thank you @aireens @oliver @sigmasuccour for the positive comments ! I was just venting a little but I’m glad some people have been able to build off it (its wasn’t meant to be a suggestion or anything like that, just something I felt a lot of people have come across and not been able to speak about, but I’m glad some have taken an interest)…[Read more]
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