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    Sierra posted an update 6 months ago

    My best friend left her pro-anorexia blog open on my computer and everything in me wants to delete but that feels like crossing a line…not sure what to do…this stuff is so dangerous

    Mood : Guilty
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      I would talk to her about it @sierrastabler, let her know you care and that you want her to be healthy, happy and positive, always be the compassionate and sweet friend that you are Sierra, be as honest and open with her as you can, hope everything goes OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @sierrastabler honestly you should talk to her, she needs help. She doesn’t realise but not only she’s fucking up her own health, but she’s fucking up other people’s health by this. Anorexia is not something to be romantised, is an incredibly deadly disease.

    • @sierrastabler Yeah don’t try to fix this by force, I think it’s important to first ask her to keep that toxic stuff away from your computer, and then you can see how to be supportive as a friend while firmly denying that it’s anything good.

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    Sierra posted a new activity comment 1 year, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Sierra posted an update Gotta love it when someone you’ve been there for relentlessly, despite the cruel things they say to you, calls you a ”fair weather friend”….okay. View

    She’s done this to me multiple times before. She did just lose her child a month ago so I’ve been trying to be patient but she has just taken an ax to my mental health and self-esteem too many times. It’s toxic.

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    Sierra posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    Gotta love it when someone you’ve been there for relentlessly, despite the cruel things they say to you, calls you a ”fair weather friend”….okay.

    Mood : Drained
    • Your friend should treat you with all the love, care and compassion in the world @sierrastabler, you deserve amazing people around you who will be grateful that you are here for them, try to talk to them and let them know how you feel about all the cruel things they have said, hopefully they will be more nicer and considerate going forward, you…[Read more]

    • Madam-e-Sierra. I ask, what is the purpose of sharing this status with us?
      If you helped them or invested in their success, and they couldn’t see it. What is the issue with that?
      For some reason if it even is rude that you friend stated that to you. Did wonder that perhaps their life may be in peril that they may have said so without much…[Read more]

    • She’s done this to me multiple times before. She did just lose her child a month ago so I’ve been trying to be patient but she has just taken an ax to my mental health and self-esteem too many times. It’s toxic.

    • We all have our own limitations. if you deem it fit to move away from her, then do so.
      Know and understand that if you are not mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally well. You cannot perform well in a society.
      The moment you DON’T (perform well) you become a burden to others. That is why it is vital that you care for your…[Read more]

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    Sierra posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    Skipping my medication for two days probably wasn’t a good idea. Everything feels fuzzy.

    Mood : Stressed
    • Hopefully your medication helps you @sierrastabler, if not, I would try to talk to your doctor to see if anything can be done to make things better for you Sierra, you deserve the best, do take care of yourself and stay positive, I’m sure everything will be OK, keep going and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Sierra posted an update 2 years, 10 months ago

    Just finished Weeds…..and now I don’t know what to do with myself.

    Mood : Lazy
    • Do something that makes you feel good and that makes you happy @sierrastabler, be positive and focus on being the amazing human-being that you are Sierra, you can do it, everything will be OK hun, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too or if you need someone to confide in, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is…[Read more]

    • Check other Jenji Kohan stuff, maybe Orange is the new black?

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    Sierra posted an update 2 years, 10 months ago

    If my brain could stop overthinking every last aspect of my life, that would be great. Unfortunately, it doesn’t look like that’s going to happen, so please excuse me while I go obsess over all 50 different ways things could go wrong when I return my former employers’ booster seat tomorrow

    Mood : Anxious
    • I know. You have to keep yourself occuìed to avoid doing that! Try doing stuff you are saving for later :)

    • Try to focus on the things that make you smile and that make you feel good @sierrastabler, do your best to stay positive and focused on all the good things in life Sierra, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Sierra asked “Academic Ethical Conflict3 years, 2 months ago

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    Sierra posted an update in the group Group logoListener's Group 3 years, 2 months ago

    Missed a presentation. Told professor my grandfather had a heart attack. I have a week to come up with the ”proper documentation”….

    Mood : Stressed
    • I’m sure you will do great and you will be successful @sierrastabler, just take your time and do your best, things will turn out well Sierra, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Sierra joined the group Group logoListener’s Group 3 years, 3 months ago

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    Sierra answered question “Growing feelings for friend over the internet, what to do?3 years, 3 months ago

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    Sierra answered question “do any other girls fart in public3 years, 3 months ago

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    Sierra answered question “What does it mean if an ex broke up with you, went to art college, dropped out of college, came back3 years, 3 months ago

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    Sierra posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago

    Life is Good <3

    Mood : Content
    • That’s so wonderful to hear @sierrastabler, glad things are going well for you, hope everything continues to go amazingly for you, keep smiling and being the special and wonderful person that you are, remember I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)

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    Sierra posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago

    Just applied to be a volunteer. Can’t wait to hear back!

    Mood : Excited
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    Sierra posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    This is weird.

    Mood : Confused
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    Sierra posted a new activity comment 4 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Sierra posted an update I’m probably not ready to be friends with him if it still feels like I’m cheating on him when I talk to other people, huh? View

    I know. It’s not even that I like other people. I don’t want anyone else. We were really good friend before and I just miss my best friend. It’s all so weird.

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    Sierra posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    I’m probably not ready to be friends with him if it still feels like I’m cheating on him when I talk to other people, huh?

    Mood : Guilty
    • Absolutely not.

      Make distance from him, don’t try to get close again. Tell yourself ”We are broken up. It is okay for me to like other people.”

    • if you want to talk about this in detail feel free to message anytime – also you aren’t cheating if you are ’talking’ to other people because it did end – right so as hard as it is you have to pick up your self :) good luck love Happybunny

    • I know. It’s not even that I like other people. I don’t want anyone else. We were really good friend before and I just miss my best friend. It’s all so weird.

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